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If i leave my gf for my ex , meanwhile she flirts another guy. After she accepts me again should i be mad at her talking to that guy( now they are just friends )?????

Reply 1

DrawTheLine

Original post by Anonymous

If i leave my gf for my ex , meanwhile she flirts another guy. After she accepts me again should i be mad at her talking to that guy( now they are just friends )?????

I'm confused.

So you left your girlfriend to go back to your ex.
She was flirting with another guy after you had broken up with her.
You presumably break up with your ex again.
You get back together with the girl.

Is that correct? If so, no you can't be mad because you left her for your ex and she flirted with the guy when you had broken up.

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

Yes, correct. She talked with a guy during that duration but she didnt date.

Original post by DrawTheLine

Reply 3

DrawTheLine

Original post by Anonymous

Yes, correct. She talked with a guy during that duration but she didnt date.

Yeah, you shouldn't be mad. She was not in a relationship with you when she flirted with this guy. You don't have control over her or have any say in what she does, and you especially don't get a say in what she does when she isn't even dating you.

If you get mad at her for talking to a guy when you weren't with her, then she can get mad at you for going back to your ex as well.