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do i tell him im a virgin?

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Reply 20
you dont have to tell him your a virgin unless you feel you should/if he asks. you could just tell him your inexpienced instead of just spelling it out
Marie23
Just tell him! everyone puts thier 'virginity' on a pedastal.... bloody hell, nd yeh hed probs like it that you were a virgin, i dnt get why tho?...but thats guys for you:P


It's just fun taking away your innocence, making you a women, making you want sex for the rest of your life, being the one that you remember for the rest of your life as the guy who took your virginity, and the one who made you come from sex first etc! (if he's any good lol, though first time is always crap to be fair, but still its the ideas that count haha)
6126 student
you dont have to tell him your a virgin unless you feel you should/if he asks. you could just tell him your inexpienced instead of just spelling it out

Yeah, you could just say that... but don't make out you've had a lot and he can just go for it down there. Make sure he's careful.
Reply 23
He almost certainly knows anyway. It's a myth that everyone loses their virginity at 16, mainly brought about by surveys on which nearly everybody lies. Most girls I know aged 18-19 are quite obviously virgins.
Reply 24
ChrisLincoln
It's just fun taking away your innocence, making you a women, making you want sex for the rest of your life, being the one that you remember for the rest of your life as the guy who took your virginity, and the one who made you come from sex first etc! (if he's any good lol, though first time is always crap to be fair, but still its the ideas that count haha)

Ha, is this the way guys view it? I was just as much a woman before I lost my virginity. For most girls, it's not their first time that makes them want sex for the rest of their life (if anything, it might put them off!). And I bet about 0.1% of girls come during their first time ...

The other points stand though.
Jelkin
Ha, is this the way guys view it? I was just as much a woman before I lost my virginity. For most girls, it's not their first time that makes them want sex for the rest of their life (if anything, it might put them off!). And I bet about 0.1% of girls come during their first time ...

The other points stand though.



True, but like i said its the idea of these rather than in practice :P. And by want sex, i mean that craving feeling you get after a few weeks without haha :rolleyes:
Maybe you should just get it over with and shag a badger... :badger:

I have a particularly randy one living in the field next to my house, you can borrow him if you want :smile:
Reply 27
Audrey Hepburn
Maybe you should just get it over with and shag a badger... :badger:

I have a particularly randy one living in the field next to my house, you can borrow him if you want :smile:



hmmmm good plan. especially since i think the OP is really 35 :ninja:
Reply 28
Audrey Hepburn
Maybe you should just get it over with and shag a badger... :badger:

I have a particularly randy one living in the field next to my house, you can borrow him if you want :smile:


You jest, some people are into that kind of thing. :ninja:
emilina
hmmmm good plan. especially since i think the OP is really 35 :ninja:


If she is then we may run into some difficulty, badgers only really go for you if your under 30...
Reply 30
Ed.
You jest, some people are into that kind of thing. :ninja:


yea, you would know all about that wouldnt you Ed.? :hubba:
Reply 31
It dnt make much difference, Dont be like Hi Im a Virgin :biggrin:

AS it starts to go towards sex, just tell him your inexperienced and he should get the idea.

and enjoy
Reply 32
emilina
yea, you would know all about that wouldnt you Ed.? :hubba:


Yes I have sex with badgers ! Ok I've said it now.
Reply 33
and also it nothing to be embaressed about JEEZ
if anything its a bonus
most guys get a high out of it
tell him ur a virgin, dont sleep with him tbh
Reply 35
Quick something else as well, one guy I knew who was most definatly sexually experianced, if it stood still long enough he tapped it, didnt lose his V til he was 21!! Really suprised me when he told me, considering I would have thought he was rampant since an early age, but apparently not. So he may well have been a virgin at 18 also, and will be much more considerate and gentle than if he expects you to know what your doing.
Tell him if you want to, but it's in no way necessary that you do. The idea that if you tell him you're a virgin then he will be gentler with you makes the assumption that he's going to be rough otherwise. If you set the pace right then I doubt he would be like that about it. If you think he's not taking any consideration as to whether you're experienced or not then feel free to tell him and I'm sure he'll take appropriate action.
Personally, I don't think you need to make a big deal out of it at all, and if you tell him then it might hype it up for both him and you to the point where you get overly concerned with it being your first time, instead of just seeing what happens and enjoying it.
Reply 37
Yes, tell him so he knows to be more sensitive and gentle as it might hurt you! It's nothing to be ashamed of :smile:
Reply 38
xjust_an_angelx
tell him ur a virgin, dont sleep with him tbh

err and why not? it sounds like the op is set on sleeping with this guy so might as well skip the 'dont have sex just yet!' comments.
op; you don't have to tell him anything unless he asked. my friend's boyfriend doesn't even know my friend was a virgin when they had sex :smile: if virginity really doesn't matter to you, i don't see why you should talk to him about it.
Just tell him.

He'll probably find out anyway.

It's nothing to be embarassed about.