do i tell him im a virgin?

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umm no offence, but if you can't even feel like you can talk about this to him, then you really shouldn't be having sex....

Reply 41

***amy***

I go against the norm in this forum because i TOTALLY understand how you feel that 18 is old to lose your virginity/ understand why you're embarrassed. I'm 17, had sex for the first time a few months ago and even though I'm in a relationship and really like the guy I'm with, part of me was just so relieved I had lost my 'v-plates'.

I don't think it matters if you tell him tbh. If you don't feel comfortable then don't, I don't really know if you'd be able to tell, would have to ask a guy that I guess.

I'd probably advise you to tell him, as he'd probably think it's sweet and might take more care over it.

hope this helps :smile:

Reply 42

Intensity

When you're getting down to it.. just stop him and say, "I really want to do this, but i haven't done it before, i'm worried i'll be bad at it" or something.

It can only go two ways..

Do tell him though, i think.

Reply 43

mckool

yea might as well tell him...im soon to be 18 n the only virgin in my group oif friends.....i seriosuly dont care tho....infact i would rather be pure :P than in the situation that some of my friend are in.

Reply 44

Anonymous #3

anon. personal.
this is near enough exactly what happened to me.
im 19 and in my first year at uni, and was a virgin however lost it to a guy i met in a club. we met up a few times and i really liked him and we ended up having sex... i was a virgin but didnt tell him... i just didnt know how to, however i started bleeding and he asked if i was on my period or if it was my first time and i just said he was my second i didnt know why it was happening... but then he was alright about it :smile: