I know its wrong Please Help
Okay this will sound weird and i know this is wrong but unfortunately am starting to like my boyfriends best mate
i know you will think i am being evil but i cant help it
i dont love my boyfriend anymore because i like his mate.
The thing is i think his best mate likes me to.
he has been dropping hints which has made things worse.
also wat makes it even worse is he is my best mates ex and also my boyfriends best mate
i need help
Should ii leave my boyfriend ??
Should i tell the other boy i like him ??
should i ignore my feelings ??
Any suggestions ???
Wbs xo
i know you will think i am being evil but i cant help it
i dont love my boyfriend anymore because i like his mate.
The thing is i think his best mate likes me to.
he has been dropping hints which has made things worse.
also wat makes it even worse is he is my best mates ex and also my boyfriends best mate
i need help
Should ii leave my boyfriend ??
Should i tell the other boy i like him ??
should i ignore my feelings ??
Any suggestions ???
Wbs xo
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If you don't love your love your boyfriend anymore etc. then break up with him. Leave it some time and see how you feel about the best mate.
Dump your boyfriend and shag his mate, problem solved.
The best thing you can do is stop seeing your boyfriend, it's cruel to lead him on seeing as you don't love him anymore. Make sure you let him down gently so that you can hopefully 'stay friends'. Once you've stopped seeing him you need to wait a fair amount until you start acting on your feelings for his mate. You might want to talk to your best friend first though to see how she'd react, it's better for her to find out from you then someone else.
You're not evil seeing as you haven't (from what I can gather) acted upon these feelings just make sure you don't string your current boyfriend on as it's not fair for him and will make things worse if something happened between you and his mate.
You're not evil seeing as you haven't (from what I can gather) acted upon these feelings just make sure you don't string your current boyfriend on as it's not fair for him and will make things worse if something happened between you and his mate.
Because there isn't the possiblity that you're young and don't know what love is, and don't know simple lust when you see it.
I'll make a bet with you. Shag his mate. If you don't want your boyfriend back when he finds out, I'll give you £10.
Sigh.
I'll make a bet with you. Shag his mate. If you don't want your boyfriend back when he finds out, I'll give you £10.
Sigh.
First off dont cheat, set your curreny boyfriend straight, cheating is the worse thing in the world, after that i would see what happens, and as you said you dont love your boyfriend anymore, is it fair to drag out that relationship?
well i am young am 15
and thats why i know im being stupid
but i cant help having feelings for this other boy
and me and my boyfriend keep arguin over stupid things
and thats why i know im being stupid
but i cant help having feelings for this other boy
and me and my boyfriend keep arguin over stupid things
Redemption
I'll make a bet with you. Shag his mate. If you don't want your boyfriend back when he finds out, I'll give you £10.
I'll make a bet with you. Shag his mate. If you don't want your boyfriend back when he finds out, I'll give you £10.
rofl, brilliant.
The first and the fairest thing you should do is split with your current boyfriend. Its cruel and unfair to keep stringing him along if you no longer have feelings for him.
I think that you should then have some time on your own, to let things settle and to see if the feelings you have for your b/f's best friend are still there (on both sides)..
If you do then decide to get together with him, have you thought about the possible consequences? Losing your best mate would be horrible, so you would need to be sure she was ok with the situation. Could you talk to her about it?
Its a difficult situation, you cant help who you fall for and if handled sensitively enough, it will work out in the end.
I think that you should then have some time on your own, to let things settle and to see if the feelings you have for your b/f's best friend are still there (on both sides)..
If you do then decide to get together with him, have you thought about the possible consequences? Losing your best mate would be horrible, so you would need to be sure she was ok with the situation. Could you talk to her about it?
Its a difficult situation, you cant help who you fall for and if handled sensitively enough, it will work out in the end.
NicoleBabe
well i am young am 15
and thats why i know im being stupid
but i cant help having feelings for this other boy
and me and my boyfriend keep arguin over stupid things
and thats why i know im being stupid
but i cant help having feelings for this other boy
and me and my boyfriend keep arguin over stupid things
Leave your boyfriend then!
Do you know if the other boy has feelings back btw?
If you end it with your boyfriend, set things straight with your best friend and leave things a while before making a move on this lad then your conscience will be at ease.
NicoleBabe
well i am young am 15
and thats why i know im being stupid
but i cant help having feelings for this other boy
and me and my boyfriend keep arguin over stupid things
and thats why i know im being stupid
but i cant help having feelings for this other boy
and me and my boyfriend keep arguin over stupid things
Relationships are hard. People never work at them these days, they just go "Oh, I'm not feeling so unbelievably extatic about this right now", and then end them. Consumer culture at its finest.
But hey, if you really want to **** with your head, try a threesome with them both.
I think the advice to leave your bf, wait a little while, see what the situation is with the other guy is and then decide what to do. If you don't have feelings for your bf anymore, it isnt fair to string him along, but I would be careful about going for this other guy straight away.
It sounds like its going to be a difficult situation with both your current bf, and your friend (whose ex it is). I guess you've got to seriously consider whether this guy is worth losing two mates for?
Let us know how you get on xxx
It sounds like its going to be a difficult situation with both your current bf, and your friend (whose ex it is). I guess you've got to seriously consider whether this guy is worth losing two mates for?
Let us know how you get on xxx
I ask you this, how would you feel if it was your boyfriend dumping YOU for YOUR best friend? or jumping into bed with her without even considering your feelings?
Do yourself a favour and grow up.
Do yourself a favour and grow up.
it really depends how serious it is with ur boyfriend, and this new guys old relationship with ur best mate. how long have u been going out?
also, u said that u dont luv ur boyfriend any more. if u lost those feeling quite quickly by another guy, r u sure u were in love with him in the first place?
also, u said that u dont luv ur boyfriend any more. if u lost those feeling quite quickly by another guy, r u sure u were in love with him in the first place?
This thread is 10-11 months old?!!!
deary me
deary me
Well me & my boyfriend lasted for 1 year &+ his best mate did lyk me as we talked it over.
No ii didnt sleep we him :L:L
No ii didnt sleep we him :L:L
talk to the bf.
tell him how you feel and that your really sorry.
you've been trying to find solutions but you dont know what to do and you didnt want to hurt hi or lie to him. 'saying it to your face'.
tell him nothing will happen between you and the mate unless his totally ok with it.
and that you cant be with him if you are thinking about his mate.
the worst that could happen is that he goes MADD. but then you dont like him anyway and it makes the dump easier.
make sure the mate doesnt think you dumped you bf because of him. so like stop flirting for a week or so afterwards.
good luck.
btw how do i start a discussion?
tell him how you feel and that your really sorry.
you've been trying to find solutions but you dont know what to do and you didnt want to hurt hi or lie to him. 'saying it to your face'.
tell him nothing will happen between you and the mate unless his totally ok with it.
and that you cant be with him if you are thinking about his mate.
the worst that could happen is that he goes MADD. but then you dont like him anyway and it makes the dump easier.
make sure the mate doesnt think you dumped you bf because of him. so like stop flirting for a week or so afterwards.
good luck.
btw how do i start a discussion?
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