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So ive been single for 2 years now its really getting rather annoying...i was enjoying the whole single life but after a year got bored of it dated but nothing ever came of it had a few short term relationships but it never worked out...

I dont know what im doing wrong?! i had a couple of dates this month but all ended in a disaster!!

my mates tell me that i need to just chill out and wait for it to come but im really started to think im jinxed! hahha

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Reply 1
By the looks of you, its their loss =)
Reply 2
^^ It will come to you.
Reply 3
i think i should take my mates advice and stop looking for it.
Reply 4
I think "Anonymous" who started the thread "omg guy on internet" could point you in the direction of someone who's keen.
Your really stunning, so clearly its not that you dont get attention, but i think you should just hold out.
Someone good will come along!
Reply 6
Mashud
By the looks of you, its their loss =)


U mean looks of just hair?
Reply 7
chloecouture
Your really stunning, so clearly its not that you dont get attention, but i think you should just hold out.
Someone good will come along!


Agreed.

Sometimes you just need to be patient.
Reply 8
like after the first year i was like hmmm yeah i should just wait then it went to year and a half and i thought man this blows! my guy mates say im to intimidating to approach! how do look more approachable? lol Ive always been quite a fierce one when im out i live for my music so ud find me moshing and downing drinks is that intimidating for a guy?
Reply 9
d2620
so ud find me moshing and downing drinks is that intimidating for a guy?


no, the opposite lol
Reply 10
LoZEr
U mean looks of just hair?


I dnt knw which pic ur looking at lol
Reply 11
lol so easy? i still dont get any attention! or maybe i come across too drunk to approach? jeez i really didn't think i could be that bad!
Reply 12
d2620
lol so easy? i still dont get any attention! or maybe i come across too drunk to approach? jeez i really didn't think i could be that bad!


maybe the tatoos :s-smilie: and loud hair?

Yeah, dont get too drunk. I just laugh at those girls thinking they're idiots, turn off for a girl tbh.
Reply 13
Yeah I was gonna say maybe lads are intimidated by you. But then tbh there's no point toning down your personality when you're at so as not to intimidate people, because then you'll be stuck with a, you know, wet lettuce. Tbh I would have thought if you are into the whole rock/emo/moshing scene that you could find some suitable guys, maybe you just outmosh them all! Maybe you talk too much, I find guys can be put off by this because they like to get in there and make the jokes and be all grrr caveman and stuff. Sounds sexist, but is for the most part, true. so I guess the choice is: 1) keep on as you are and eventually you find a perfect match who loves your loudness and is not intimidating by it, 2) tone it down in order to ensare men by duping them into thinking you're a little Bo Beep type character 3) perseverance, chat them into submission, so that even if you are polar opposites, you eventually attract.
Reply 14
LoZEr
maybe the tatoos :s-smilie: and loud hair?

Yeah, dont get too drunk. I just laugh at those girls thinking they're idiots, turn off for a girl tbh.


id rather be single forever then change the way i look! i love my tatt and my big back combed hair!

I'm not one of those drunks that cant even walk properly, talk and vomits but i do get drunk and enjoy my moshing and booze!
Reply 15
halátnost
Yeah I was gonna say maybe lads are intimidated by you. But then tbh there's no point toning down your personality when you're at so as not to intimidate people, because then you'll be stuck with a, you know, wet lettuce. Tbh I would have thought if you are into the whole rock/emo/moshing scene that you could find some suitable guys, maybe you just outmosh them all! Maybe you talk too much, I find guys can be put off by this because they like to get in there and make the jokes and be all grrr caveman and stuff. Sounds sexist, but is for the most part, true. so I guess the choice is: 1) keep on as you are and eventually you find a perfect match who loves your loudness and is not intimidating by it, 2) tone it down in order to ensare men by duping them into thinking you're a little Bo Beep type character 3) perseverance, chat them into submission, so that even if you are polar opposites, you eventually attract.


Thanks chick , yeah im totally not up for toning it down.
yeah im sure ill find him soon just need to chill out and just wait for it to happen...
Reply 16
d2620
id rather be single forever then change the way i look! i love my tatt and my big back combed hair!

I'm not one of those drunks that cant even walk properly, talk and vomits but i do get drunk and enjoy my moshing and booze!


lol im just messin, u dont need to change anything, somethin will happen some day, If i saw u in a club, id give it a try , maybe :smile:
Reply 17
LoZEr
lol im just messin, u dont need to change anything, somethin will happen some day, If i saw u in a club, id give it a try , maybe :smile:


hahhah sweet
Reply 18
I would.
Reply 19
hahahha lol