Feel like I'm being stalked at uni Watch

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I feel like people in uni give me more attention and are intruding by wanting to know who I am. What can I do
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I feel like people in uni give me more attention and are intruding by wanting to know who I am. What can I do
If people are just starting conversations with you and being friendly, I don't think it is a big problem. Are you not wanting to be open with people about who you are and making friends?
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Are you a fresher? Do you live in uni accommodations where lots of students are milling about?

I think the most people actually, especially when they still new at uni, are simply looking to make a connection. You read on TSR about loads of uni students who are trying to find friends and connections and feel lonely. I feel certain that these people that you feel are acting stalkersish are really just seeking a friendship. Perhaps they think you are already friends! If you are experiencing too much interaction then using a kind tone set limits and boundaries for yourself. Let them know that there are times you just prefer to be alone and that it nothing personal. Respectfully tell them that there is some information you're not comfortable sharing. I am sure they are not actually trying to interfere in your life and what feels like stalking to you is their just trying to show interest in you as a person/friend.
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