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We've been dating for about 2 months and he was perfect, he raised my expectations - he always made time to see me, asked me out on dates,used to pay and even spoke to me about marrying me and saving for a house.

About 3 weeks ago he started being in a really bad mood each time he saw me, texted me way less frequently, always made plans with other people instead of me.We went on holiday for a few days and he was quite cold and not affectionate - i initiated the kisses, hugs and holding hands (when he used to). Now that we're back idk if i should break up with him or see how it goes, he has given me signs he doesn't want a future with me for example, he said 'when u get married to ur future husband', 'i dont know if I can wait till marriage' (when he told me he was celibate just like me due to our religion), he encourages me to move away, doesnt make plans with me and doesnt text me regularly.

Quite disappointing, idk if i should break up with him or see if he changes. we also work together so i'm scared its awkward even tho we work in a pretty big company. i already told him how i felt before going on holiday but nothing changed.
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you're asking the wrong person... what you wrote up there, tell to him
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So you're gonna break up without telling him all of this and giving him a chance to improve/explain himself? Damn I feel bad for the dude.
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How is it now and what's your instincts? I think there can be something to be said for seizing the initiative and getting the dumping in first.
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Talk to him about this, make your feelings known
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This sounds like a drastic change from the beginning of your relationship. You mentioned you already told him how you feel but nothing has changed. So if you feel you have told him all of this that you mentioned here on this post, then it may be time to break the relationship. It is possible that he may be going through something within himself that he hasn't mentioned to you. Talk with him one last time and if he doesn't react, then you do what is best for you.
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Sounds like he realised the chase was over and he could stop putting the effort in and now he's bored.
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