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I’m in college and I have 3 friends in my class that I hang out with during lunchtime and break. They have all had sex multiple times and had multiple partners, we can’t go 5 minutes without talking about something relating to sex. I’m a virgin and recently they’ve been making jokes about my virginity, and referencing it a lot. It makes me uncomfortable and I’ve told them this but they keep doing it any way. What can I do?
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Get rid of them periodtt
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They may be exaggerating.
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I read the title and I immediately knew what I'd be responding: they're not your friends. Find people that are worth your time and energy.
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I wish I could, I’m just waiting to the end of college as it’s not long to go!
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Are you going into University/Work afterwards? If so you will make plenty like minded friends!
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Yes! I’m going to university afterwards with one of the friends but she doesn’t make the jokes or join in so I think it’ll be fine! I’m not going to spend all my time with her anyway.
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They’re just immature
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(Original post by sunhurricane26)
Yes! I’m going to university afterwards with one of the friends but she doesn’t make the jokes or join in so I think it’ll be fine! I’m not going to spend all my time with her anyway.
Here's to getting out of college ASAP and making good friends who won't treat you badly! What I learnt is having few friends were better than having tons of fake friends...
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Very true! I’ve had other fake friends previously from an old friend group that I’ve had to cut out!
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They’re just immature
Very true, I can’t believe they’ve had sex when they’re so immature... I know more than them about sex anyways 😂
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Very true, I can’t believe they’ve had sex when they’re so immature... I know more than them about sex anyways 😂
quality ... not quantity of 😂😂
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It will be helpful to identify what exactly is making you uncomfortable. The constant sex talk or them referring to your virginity? If it's the former then re-evaluate your friend group/priorities. If it's the latter then definitely talk to them about it, sometimes they may not understand the severity of the issue and how much it is really bothering you.

Don't feel pressured in any way tho. I'm in a similar situation but I have my reasons and I know what I want, so it doesn't really bother me that much. Usually, I just laugh with them because it's not one of my insecurities. :dontknow:
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(Original post by Lady Jamie)
It will be helpful to identify what exactly is making you uncomfortable. The constant sex talk or them referring to your virginity? If it's the former then re-evaluate your friend group/priorities. If it's the latter then definitely talk to them about it, sometimes they may not understand the severity of the issue and how much it is really bothering you.

Don't feel pressured in any way tho. I'm in a similar situation but I have my reasons and I know what I want, so it doesn't really bother me that much. Usually, I just laugh with them because it's not one of my insecurities. :dontknow:
It’s not an insecurity of mine, I couldn’t care less about having sex. It’s the fact they don’t respect my privacy the most, as it’s ultimately my decision. And it’s none of their business, I just get fed up that it’s the only thing they can talk about.
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I presume you're a girl? In which case just call them slappers and move on.
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I presume you're a girl? In which case just call them slappers and move on.
I am a girl, but I’m not going to do that 😂 it’s none of my business what they do with their bodies as it’s none of their business what I do with mine.
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(Original post by namkeen-kuthi)
quality ... not quantity of 😂😂
look at you being all wise lol
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if they don't have anything to talk about other than sex then they must have no personality and nothing else in common
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(Original post by sunhurricane26)
It’s not an insecurity of mine, I couldn’t care less about having sex. It’s the fact they don’t respect my privacy the most, as it’s ultimately my decision. And it’s none of their business, I just get fed up that it’s the only thing they can talk about.
Fair enough, very understandable.

Again, just talk to them first and see where it goes from there. My guess is that they might tone it down a tad but ultimately it’s for you to decide whether or not you see a long term friendship, given your different..interests. All the best tho.
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Some "friends" they are.
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