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My girlfriend told me she’s really mad and won’t tell me why, she told me it wasn’t about me but keeps answering my texts with one word answers. She told me she can’t trust people and nothing more

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i don't get how some of you guys even have time for these dumb mind games.

i'd just tell her 'ok then' or something like that
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Give her a day to cool down, then contact her again.

She might come round sooner than you'd expect. :dontknow:
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Some girls get a bit funny when they get angry.

Give her space, she'll explain to you when she's calmed down. Nothing more you can do, pestering her with messages won't make her feel any better.
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If it's not about you, she shouldn't be taking it out on you.
If it is about you, then it's absolutely ridiculous to just be short and cryptic with you, without actually telling you what the matter is.

But.. some girls are just like that. Or they can be sometimes, at least. Let her know that you either want to a) support her with what she's going through, or b) put things right if whatever's up with her is your fault. If she still won't be civil or at least explain, tbh I'd say it's not worth it. So much hassle dealing with moody girls.
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U were probably acting like an ******* no offence
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Sadly relatable, I also go cold and distant when I’m mad instead of being upfront. I know it’s wrong and immature but we can’t help it. Sometimes we just don’t feel ready to confront, but also feel too hurt/pissed to move on. 😞

My best advice is to just give her some space, but make her aware that you are willing to listen when she’s ready. Give both of you a chance to cool down a bit before doing/saying anything you will later regret.
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Haha, standard.Go the pub till she snaps out of it.
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(Original post by Lady Jamie)
Sadly relatable, I also go cold and distant when I’m mad instead of being upfront. I know it’s wrong and immature but we can’t help it. Sometimes we just don’t feel ready to confront, but also feel too hurt/pissed to move on. 😞

My best advice is to just give her some space, but make her aware that you are willing to listen when she’s ready. Give both of you a chance to cool down a bit before doing/saying anything you will later regret.
How long do you think she will stay mad before? Will it take a few days? All this worries me I have to admit 🙃
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Haha, standard.Go the pub till she snaps out of it.
Don’t do tht
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If she doesn't want to tell you then leave her alone for now. When she realises you're not going to play games to get it out of her she'll either tell you what's up or she'll stop letting it affect how she treats you.
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She also told me she’s mad at “some people” but she won’t tell who they are, I think it’s people from work
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How long do you think she will stay mad before? Will it take a few days? All this worries me I have to admit 🙃
It's hard to say. I can get really petty and ignore someone for weeks/months (at least I'm self-aware and trying to change)...but usually a day or 2 should be enough to cool her head. Really depends on why she's mad, her mood, and whether or not her anger is directed towards you.

It's sweet that you are worried and you should make her aware of this, maybe check up on her once in a while. I know it would personally make me feel better to see that he cares and is making an effort
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Don’t do tht
Doesn't sound like it is his fault and mithering will do more harm than good. Get out the way, let her stew and calm herself.
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Just ignore her until she starts acting normal again lol.
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Okay, i’m gonna ignore her for a while she’s still fuming this morning 😬
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My girlfriend told me she’s really mad and won’t tell me why, she told me it wasn’t about me but keeps answering my texts with one word answers. She told me she can’t trust people and nothing more

Any advice?
Say to her that you are available to talk when she calls you and leave it up to her otherwise she will not see that her attitude is really bad considering that she says that its not you!
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I hate childish games like this if she don't snap out of it soon then just finish it
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