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I know you’re thinking, that means he likes you, but after spending 45 minutes after being related to a goddess/ Jesus I had enough. Then after all that he said soo do you want to go out? And a couple of minutes later saying it was a joke! Tbh I still am not sure what going out means in terms of dating and stuff and he knew I was not allowed to go out with someone anyway, and when I said why? He said to test your paranoid and stubborn you are, and he starting doing this xxx thing before started to compliment me about everything. I talk to him everyday, and have found this upsetting even though I don’t like him. I said I don’t ever want to talk to you again, and he replied for how long??? For a day? He seemed to find this funny. Was I right in doing what I did?
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Just sounds like messing you around in general *shrug*
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Someone messing you about like this is really rude, selfish and a little bizarre.

This does not seem like the sort of person to trust or get intimate with; you would always be wondering "what next".

It may indicate that he is deep down very insecure but personally I'd move on and give him a thumbs down!
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(Original post by StriderHort)
Just sounds like messing you around in general *shrug*
Yeah...
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Yeah, he has got a few issues
(Original post by Grizwuld)
Someone messing you about like this is really rude, selfish and a little bizarre.

This does not seem like the sort of person to trust or get intimate with; you would always be wondering "what next".

It may indicate that he is deep down very insecure but personally I'd move on and give him a thumbs down!
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I guess that maybe it's a defense mechanism? It depends on what you said in response to him asking you out. If you said no, then it's probably that he's trying to cover up his humiliation.
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He knows I am not allowed so that’s what I said?
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I guess that maybe it's a defense mechanism? It depends on what you said in response to him asking you out. If you said no, then it's probably that he's trying to cover up his humiliation.
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