I disagree. It takes strength to accept a situation and rise above it. It takes courage to make the decision someone isn’t worth being in your life anymore. It doesn’t weaken you, quite the opposite! It reinstalls confidence in yourself, that you have control who gets to be in your life and who doesn’t. You CHOSE to walk away from something, because you value yourself worth. That doesn’t mean they get away with it, usually people realise how much they messed up when you’re gone!
How does watching their every detail help? How does it make you stronger? You’re not even strong enough to let go. You put yourself through misery in hope that it might hurt them a bit? Imagine they don’t even care, it’s your time and feelings you wasted. Live for yourself, not trying to make someone else feel a type of way. Life is too short to waste time with these kind of motives lol. Dunno about you, but I’ve gotta better things to do 😂😂😂