Why is he like this/what's his deal? Watch

Anonymous #1
#1
Report Thread starter 3 weeks ago
#1
For some reason I fancied this guy at work but as per usual the guy I always seem to like doesn't like me back. Besides this, this guy can be soo rude at times slyly, you'd think he's a gentleman at times by offering to help carry things for you or giving me a hug when entering the workplace, complimenting my hair or saying I smell nice and that's about it but he does certain things to make me think otherwise, for example;

- Doesn't try to start a convo with me, or when I try, i find it hard to carry on the convo because idk I'm awks and I feel he's not interested because you know what, he isn't.

- His close friend likes me but unfortunately I don't feel the same way, and this guy I like seems to have fun teasing me about it or I suspect he encourages him on the down low.

- When we squeeze pass each other at work in this tiny passage way, he will do his best not to squash/touch me, like he will literally tip toe and move his body so close to the wall so he doesn't touch me , as if I'm fat.

- Tell me when a "hot girl" enters the workplace (because we work in a resturant) and how he wants to persue her. Just tells me how beautiful every mixed girl is that enters, even though sometimes I just don't see it and makes me feel **** because he finds that skin type beautiful.

- Said my name in some whole different way out of the blue which kind of made me feel like **** again because he had been saying my name right for time then all of a sudden just randomly said it weirdly, which made me think he truly cba to care I'm even there.

- We live near each other and he will do the upmost best to avoid travelling home with me by running for the train which tbh I do the same because I feel awkward and I get the impression he would not want to talk to me and rather listen to his music, so I avoid having to deal with a situation where the option of talking to each whilst travelling.

I don't get his deal tbh or why he's like this it makes me feel confused why he doesn't speak to me like the others and I feel ****. I'm not good enough for anyone!
Posted on the TSR App. Download from Apple or Google Play
0
reply
namajeffrey
Badges: 5
Rep:
?
#2
Report 3 weeks ago
#2
maybe youre just cringe and he doesnt wanna talk to you!
0
reply
Yahik093
Badges: 4
Rep:
?
#3
Report 3 weeks ago
#3
I guess he's just treating you like a colleague and that's it. I'm the same at work (apart from giving hugs and all that crap), I have some jokes every now and then but 99% of the time I just want to get the shift done and run away to my own things in my own bubble.
0
reply
Anonymous #1
#4
Report Thread starter 3 weeks ago
#4
(Original post by namajeffrey)
maybe youre just cringe and he doesnt wanna talk to you!

Hmm maybe that's the case, it would explain my lack of love life.
Posted on the TSR App. Download from Apple or Google Play
0
reply
Anonymous #1
#5
Report Thread starter 3 weeks ago
#5
(Original post by Yahik093)
I guess he's just treating you like a colleague and that's it. I'm the same at work (apart from giving hugs and all that crap), I have some jokes every now and then but 99% of the time I just want to get the shift done and run away to my own things in my own bubble.
Fair enough I used to be like that when I started and tbh still am at times, I shouldn't have started liking him and maybe I'm getting too attached to the workplace.
Posted on the TSR App. Download from Apple or Google Play
0
reply
Anonymous #1
#6
Report Thread starter 3 weeks ago
#6
(Original post by namajeffrey)
maybe youre just cringe and he doesnt wanna talk to you!
thanks for the confidence boost though 😔
Posted on the TSR App. Download from Apple or Google Play
0
reply
X

Quick Reply

Attached files
Write a reply...
Reply
new posts
Latest
My Feed

See more of what you like on
The Student Room

You can personalise what you see on TSR. Tell us a little about yourself to get started.

Personalise

How has 2019 been so far?

Amazing!!! (48)
5.85%
Fairly positive (263)
32.03%
Just another year... (323)
39.34%
Is it 2020 yet? (187)
22.78%

Watched Threads

View All
Latest
My Feed