I'm having a bit of trouble with my gender identity...
I'm female, and I identify as so currently. I have no qualms with the she/her pronouns, and I also really like the they/them pronouns too, so I'm not sure what that'd be?
I also experience minimal gender dysphoria (I think) but I don't want to say I'm certain I do when I don't because I know how disrespectful that is.
I hate my voice, my...chest, and I did hate my long hair but I recently got the courage to cut it off really short (I got a death threat for that, but over all really nice comments!). But if I ever did surgery, which I do think about a lot, I'd definitely do top but honestly I'm not sure about the rest - which is why I'm questioning whether I have dysphoria or not.
Bottom line, I feel so much more comfortable wearing trousers and having short hair now, I don't know if I like he/him pronouns because I'm too scared to try them.
And I also have no idea what I identify as. (I was genderfluid for a year or so but didn't tell anyone I knew irl, and I was told it isn't a real thing so i'm just-)
Sorry if this was kinda long! <3
EDIT: Apparently, in the LGBTQ+ community, we support gatekeeping and deciding whether or not in our opinion someone gets to feel a certain way. Asking a simple question, while trying to be as respectful as I could, isn't allowed any more. Finding your gender identity? Not allowed. For this reason, I no longer want to take part in this discussion. I really appreciate the positive/constructive input, and i'm really sorry if I offended anybody, that simply wasn't my objective. Thank you.
now how the f*** do i close a thread