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Girl at Party Last night

Ok anonymous for pretty obvious reasons...delete rather than deanon

I went to a party last night......
Dnt wanna sound arrogant but I was looking pretty good...
Loads of random people even came upto me and complimented me on my shirt,jeans, belt..whatever....
and I usually get a fair bit of attention anway

There was this one reeeeeeeeally hot girl who kept staring at me...I mean again and again and again...
It was really weird as well cos when I was sitting in this area she also happened to be sitting nearby ..then when I went to the bar and ordered my drink..she happened to be near as well......
I didnt really get the opportunity to go over though..nor was I trying to tbh..dont know why!..also she was always with other people...in fact most of the time she was cosied up to this other guy at school with me (hes gay so its not competition or anything!).....

She kept staring at me loads however....and I could tell she seemed interested..however she never smiledor anything

What could I have done...
Also..what do I do now!!......
She goes to the "sister" school that I go to so im bound to see her soon, at prom or at another party someone from her schools throwing in 2 weeks
Also shes on facebook..so I was thinkin of sending her a message saying I keep getting messages that your poking me....or something along those lines..

A bit stumped..any1 got any advice and opinions..thanks

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:rolleyes: Just talk to her.

Anonymous

Also shes on facebook..so I was thinkin of sending her a message saying I keep getting messages that your poking me....or something along those lines..


Does she actually keep poking you? If not, don't lie, she'll know.
Just add her as a friend on Facebook, without any lame excuses, introducing yourself properly.
Maybe try talking to her?

Just a thought...
Add her on FB for definite, take it from there.
Reply 4
secretmessages
:rolleyes: Just talk to her.



Does she actually keep poking you? If not, don't lie, she'll know.
Just add her as a friend on Facebook, without any lame excuses, introducing yourself properly.

Lol exactly. That's the gayest thing I've ever heard ;laugh;

Seriously though, O.P., learn to take a hint. You should've talked to her last night.
Reply 5
Inside
Lol exactly. That's the gayest thing I've ever heard ;laugh;

Seriously though, O.P., learn to take a hint. You should've talked to her last night.


How could I..
It would have looked weird just randomly goin up and speakin to her...
I didnt get a chance to go speak to her alone
I spose i mucked up as alot of ppl she was speaking to I know so could have just gone and joined in the conversation but there we go!....

I dont wanna come across as a loser by adding her on facebook...
On the other hand a friend told me she split from her boyfriend a while back and shes "on the lookout" :wink:
Reply 6
Anonymous
How could I..
It would have looked weird just randomly goin up and speakin to her...
I didnt get a chance to go speak to her alone
I spose i mucked up as alot of ppl she was speaking to I know so could have just gone and joined in the conversation but there we go!....

I dont wanna come across as a loser by adding her on facebook...
On the other hand a friend told me she split from her boyfriend a while back and shes "on the lookout" :wink:


Yes, that's not something that people ever do at parties.
Reply 7
dont talk to her, dont look at her, dont acknowledge her. Girls love to be ignored, infact you should start a conversation with her, and then ignore her. Then call her a slut, girls love that
Reply 8
Imagine starting a conversation with someone?! That never happens, surely.
Reply 9
So, you didn't speak to her at all, you didn't even get near to her at all, she stared at you rather than smiling at you and you have some ridiculous facebook poking tactic. Gotta say, its not looking good for you.
Reply 10
Poke her :poke: either on Facebook, or in real life.
Reply 11
Anonymous
How could I..
It would have looked weird just randomly goin up and speakin to her...
I didnt get a chance to go speak to her alone
I spose i mucked up as alot of ppl she was speaking to I know so could have just gone and joined in the conversation but there we go!....

I dont wanna come across as a loser by adding her on facebook...
On the other hand a friend told me she split from her boyfriend a while back and shes "on the lookout" :wink:


We humans are a social creature dude. It's not against any social barrier to just walk up and talk to someone you don't know. Otherwise you wouldn't know anybody. You don't need an excuse to talk to somebody either, other than, "hey I noticed you and I thought I'd come over and say hi, so what's up?".
Reply 12
You can't poke somebody on Facebook if you haven't added them as a friend already. Don't feck yourself over, brotherrrr!
Reply 13
Anonymous
Loads of random people even came upto me and complimented me on my shirt,jeans, belt..whatever....


They could come compliment you and not be weird.

But YOU would be weird to talk to her?

If you looked so "good" you should have just talked to her tbh.

Get some ballllllls :smile:
Reply 14
gumbald
Imagine starting a conversation with someone?! That never happens, surely.


I hear the Iraqis to do it all the time. Bloody weirdos! If they're not building nuclear armament, they're starting conversations.
Reply 15
Show her this thread: she'll realise her mistake and move on to someone who, by virtue of having been born with testicles, has at least marginally better prospects of bearing her children than you do.
Reply 16
ExeterLad
dont talk to her, dont look at her, dont acknowledge her. Girls love to be ignored, infact you should start a conversation with her, and then ignore her. Then call her a slut, girls love that


Did you have to post that? Now I'll go through life forever wishing I could meet a man like you.
Reply 17
Don't add her on facebook.....that's kinda gay imo! :P

If you know some of her friends get them to invite her into town sometime and meet up, then you can meet her. Easy.

:biggrin:
Anonymous
Ok anonymous for pretty obvious reasons...delete rather than deanon

I went to a party last night......
Dnt wanna sound arrogant but I was looking pretty good...
Loads of random people even came upto me and complimented me on my shirt,jeans, belt..whatever....
and I usually get a fair bit of attention anway

There was this one reeeeeeeeally hot girl who kept staring at me...I mean again and again and again...
It was really weird as well cos when I was sitting in this area she also happened to be sitting nearby ..then when I went to the bar and ordered my drink..she happened to be near as well......
I didnt really get the opportunity to go over though..nor was I trying to tbh..dont know why!..also she was always with other people...in fact most of the time she was cosied up to this other guy at school with me (hes gay so its not competition or anything!).....

She kept staring at me loads however....and I could tell she seemed interested..however she never smiledor anything

What could I have done...
Also..what do I do now!!......
She goes to the "sister" school that I go to so im bound to see her soon, at prom or at another party someone from her schools throwing in 2 weeks
Also shes on facebook..so I was thinkin of sending her a message saying I keep getting messages that your poking me....or something along those lines..

A bit stumped..any1 got any advice and opinions..thanks



facebook stalk -only way!
Reply 19
Anonymous
facebook stalk -only way!
Why anonymous?