attractiveness?

your friends are idiots. if you are not confident with 'attractive guys' how can they say you are too good for 'average looking' guys? it's not all to do with looks.

how do you know how attractive you are?

i'm at a complete loss last night i went clubbing with my friends and i'm so confused

basically whenever a fit guy tried it on with me i lost total confidence because i assume i'm not good enough for them and just wander away. then when average looking guys started dancing with me, which i feel a lot happier with, my friends always dragged me away saying they weren't good enough

what can i do?? i know the simple answer is to be more confident but how?????

also how do you judge your own attractiveness and what number would you give yourself out of 10?

Its impossible to tell how attractive you are.

You know if you're ugly or not.

Everyone has a fair idea of how attractive they are.

one ways that jessica simpson 'boosted' her confidence is that apparently she stuck post-it notes on her mirror that said "you are beautiful" and something along those lines that one would expect to boost one's confidence. She concluded that by reading them everytime she glanced at the mirror/ her reflection she felt better and in a way that does work. my friend is a very(and lucky!) person as her mom constantly told her how beautiful and gorgeous she is EVERYDAY as far as i remember- im not to say she's the most stunning girl out there but she has definetely has the confidence. so coming back to the first point- one does not need someone to be telling them supportive words and boosting their confidence- one can do it oneself- jessica is an example

Not necessarily: my reckoning is continually undermined by the fact that I'm practically a different ethnicity from just about every person I've encountered; so I end up being told that I'm 'ugly' by people that despise ginger-hair, and 'good-looking' by people that fetishise anything exotic. All I can safely conclude is that I'm probably not bad for a ginger person; but that doesn't really help in a situation where ginger hair is so stigmatised.

If I spent a few months in Ireland, I'd probably be able to form a more reliable impression.

Wow you really are the archetypical ginger person.

Just sayin'.

EDIT: Oh wait, no freckles.

you are a 3.1415, you can only date a guy who is 3.14 to 3.15, otherwise either they're too minging for you, or you'll not be good enough quality for them

You can be the most good looking girl in the world.. However if you're not confident you are not attractive at all.

I'm an attractive guy because I'm such a pompous person.