I'm not interested in her but it hurts to see her with someone else???

Because you're a scoundrel

Hi gSheuys,

Really confused.

So this girl was expressing a lot of interest me and constantly talked about us going out. As pretty as she is, she's just not my type and when we are/were together the conversation wasn't something I felt was leading anywhere.

I made it very clear I wasn't interested and pushed her away/ignored her etc.

Having seen her with someone else recently, I felt upset? hurt? I simply can't understand why it bothers me.

Honestly, if she asked me out right now I would say no.

So I don't understand why does it bother me when it isn't supposed to?

She is giving someone else attention now thats why you are jealous...good for her for finding someone else and not wasting her time on you.

Hi guys,

Really confused.

So this girl was expressing a lot of interest me and constantly talked about us going out. As pretty as she is, she's just not my type and when we are/were together the conversation wasn't something I felt was leading anywhere.

I made it very clear I wasn't interested and pushed her away/ignored her etc.

Having seen her with someone else recently, I felt upset? hurt? I simply can't understand why it bothers me.

Honestly, if she asked me out right now I would say no.

So I don't understand why does it bother me when it isn't supposed to?

No offence, guess that was best for her. I believe good ppl are for good ppl n bad ppl for bad ppl.
Soz if it’s offensive. But it hurts to see girls getting attached to such guys who do such things.

People seem to always automatically take a girls side with things like this...

lmao everyone being harsh to this guy

he clearly understands he shouldn't care and doesn't want to care but everyone be like "good for her" "she shouldn't be wasting her time on you"

this forum and it's repetitive **** tires me out sometimes

Yeah, I don't get that tbh. He's not obliged to like her, but apparently he's the bad guy for pushing her away?

Him ignoring/pushing her away doesn't mean he was a **** about it either. Pretty sure 90% of people do the same thing when someone they don't like starts hitting on them. This forum never ceases to amaze me.

So am I bad person just based on not wanting to go out with someone?

People seem to always automatically take a girls side with things like this...

Lmao. I was never on the girl side. I’m not the right side. You can’t just ignore someone and push’em away and then regret later what you’ve done. If you couldn’tt appreciate what you had once had. Then you shouldn’t bother wining about it. I don’t get what are you expected? Put yourself in her position. If someone ignored you/pushed you away. You’d prob move on. You always ignore the other aspect. Cheers

lmao everyone being harsh to this guy

he clearly understands he shouldn't care and doesn't want to care but everyone be like "good for her" "she shouldn't be wasting her time on you"

this forum and it's repetitive **** tires me out sometimes

No, he should just be honest with himself and say that he is jealous and be done with it. He is not in control of her life and nor should he be. He is just looking to rationalise his thoughts with some potential excuses it seems. He is jealous and possibly controlling. Period.