Dealing with disturbing thoughts about woman Watch

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Whenever walking to school or outside I have. Disturbing thoughts about some of the girls. I cant deal with having these thoughts its not who I want to be but it isn’t getting out of my head. I don’t normally have a drive for sex I haven’t even master-bated or looked at porn for 20 days. Help with dealing with these thoughts?
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Your thoughts are not you. It's good that you're aware of these thoughts, but don't attach meaning to them. They're just thoughts. If they pop into your head, acknowledge the non judgmentally and then move on.
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Easy, just turn away from women and become anti-social
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Did these thoughts only begin occurring after you stopped masturbating? If so the solution seems clear.
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Assuming you are 16-18 years old I would say it's pretty normal for you to have such experiences (so I really wouldn't worry too much, as unpleasant as it can seem).

The 3 traditional combat techniques have been: violent exercise, cold showers or get with a girl. However, aside from those I would recommend getting into environments where you can be around other girls in basic activities that have a social element - get your head used to the feeling a woman is just another person, and that's all that is to her.
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If it's just thinking about having sex with them, that's fairly normal for a guy your age. Remember that they're only thoughts and you don't have to act on them.
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