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Reply 20

lol, we just did this in out physical attraction lecture.

Men want a gal with a big bust and tiny waist.
Ladies want someone who can provide and is manly.

Thats all according to evolutionary psychologists of course... would never happen in real life of course :tongue:

Reply 21

Cellardore

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1. good sense of humour- essential
2. intelligent but not arrogant (if that's possible :rolleyes:

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3. confident.

Reply 22

shootingstar

already found him... carl...

Reply 23

Amy

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ladyshort4u

guys what is ur ideal girl??
girls what is your ideal guy??

looks, personality, figure, height, etc etc - simply describe Ur ideal partner! :tongue:

in a name: will smith!!! everything about him is just so adorable!!

Reply 24

F. Poste

They have to give me the butterflies-in-stomach; oh my god I fancy you feeling. They have to be as intelligent as I am and hopefully creative too. It'd help if they had some interesting stories to tell and had had a bit of life experience behind them too. He'd be the typical tall, dark and handsome (willing to negotiate on the dark though!). It's important that he's secure in himself, reasonably sane and has no mental health problems!! He'd have to be thoughtful and nice but not TOO nice, because that equates to predictable. Capacity to surprise me is also appreciated..

Sucks that I don't know anyone available like that :mad:

Reply 25

ChemistBoy

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F. Poste

They have to give me the butterflies-in-stomach; oh my god I fancy you feeling. They have to be as intelligent as I am and hopefully creative too. It'd help if they had some interesting stories to tell and had had a bit of life experience behind them too. He'd be the typical tall, dark and handsome (willing to negotiate on the dark though!). It's important that he's secure in himself, reasonably sane and has no mental health problems!! He'd have to be thoughtful and nice but not TOO nice, because that equates to predictable. Capacity to surprise me is also appreciated..

Sucks that I don't know anyone available like that :mad:

Moon on a stick anyone?

Reply 26

xxkellyxx

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Tall, styled hair, good dress sence, blue eyes, cheeky, kind, funny, romantic, nice teeth, nice smile, medium to big built. :redface:

D

Reply 27

ladyshort4u

OP

1

hmmmm well my ideal guy iz my boyfriend lol! so ill just describe hiM! hes tall about 6ft 2 (and im 4ft 11) lol!) and hes got dark hair and light brown eyes. hes the most over protective boyfriend ive ever had in my life and i love that about him coz he cares so much! he calls me all the time (we are in a long distance relationship!) and when we used 2 live together he would show me off to all his friends and make me speak 2 his mom coz he was so proud of me! thats the kind of ideal guy i like - the kind that shows u that u are the most important person in the world!! sounds corny but when u see that quality in a guy u know u can trust him which brings me 2 the next thing of an ideal guy! he must be honest, trustworthy and like u not only when u look stunning but also when u got that disgusting clogged up cold and ur face is bright red and u havent shaved ur legs! lol! hehee!!! he shud love u even then!!! that is my ideal guy! my boyfriend!!!

Reply 28

EPD

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ChemistBoy

Moon on a stick anyone?

That just reminds me of Lee and Herring.
'You want the moon on a stick!'

Just me then....

Reply 29

katiesado

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Kondar

Agreed, I used to think that I had a 'type', now I realize that I have no clue....

I thought you said your type was brunette, kind of arty, intelligent with a good mix of cynicism and optimism. What happened to that?

Reply 30

Kondar

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katiesado

I thought you said your type was brunette, kind of arty, intelligent with a good mix of cynicism and optimism. What happened to that?

well, yeah I like those kinds of girls, but Ive mostly dated rather passive girls in the past- 'cute girls.' Now Im dating a new girl that I really like and she is pretty, brunette, arty, intelligent, and all the things you listed above. Which is why I like her, but she is more aggresive than the girls I have dated in the past, which is nice, but different. Thus the reason I challenged my previous ideal.

Reply 31

katiesado

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Kondar

well, yeah I like those kinds of girls, but Ive mostly dated rather passive girls in the past- 'cute girls.' Now Im dating a new girl that I really like and she is pretty, brunette, arty, intelligent, and all the things you listed above. Which is why I like her, but she is more aggresive than the girls I have dated in the past, which is nice, but different. Thus the reason I challenged my previous ideal.

Guys don't respect passive girls. I have yet to meet a guy who preferred a passive girl. Did you prefer this type of girl or was that just what you ended up getting.

Reply 32

Kondar

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katiesado

Guys don't respect passive girls. I have yet to meet a guy who preferred a passive girl. Did you prefer this type of girl or was that just what you ended up getting.

I did like the passive girls, their was something attractive about their innocence. It seemed like anything that developed was more 'sincere' in a sense because of this. Also maybe I was more confident with passive girls which gave me a sense of security in the relationship.

Reply 33

Adhsur

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katiesado

Guys don't respect passive girls. I have yet to meet a guy who preferred a passive girl. Did you prefer this type of girl or was that just what you ended up getting.

Deary you generalise too much...

Reply 34

hazzie1

1

Johnny Depp

He is so perfect; good looking, good dresser, funny, sexy, intelligent

and...attached. Damn!

Reply 35

katiesado

1

Adhsur

Deary you generalise too much...

yeah probably, it's just hard for me to be optimistic about the topic of males (can you tell???)

Reply 36

Adhsur

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katiesado

yeah probably, it's just hard for me to be optimistic about the topic of males (can you tell???)

I can tell.

Just wait and see...I'm sure you will be more optimistic when a great guy comes along for you :smile:

Reply 37

Nikki J S

I don't have a particualr 'type', looks wise and am attracted to a guys personality (honest!!). I like to get to know a guy before going out with them, which is probably why previous boyfriends have always been mates first.

Personality wise I go for guys who are smart, intelligent (but not bookworms), confident, outgoing, mature (but not too serious), GSOH, and also has to be willing to try new things and get the most out of life. Not a lot to ask for really, is it :redface:

Reply 38

G_S

13

jude law!!! anybody that looks like him will do!!

Reply 39

Adhsur

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Nikki J S

I don't have a particualr 'type', looks wise and am attracted to a guys personality (honest!!). I like to get to know a guy before going out with them, which is probably why previous boyfriends have always been mates first.

Personality wise I go for guys who are smart, intelligent (but not bookworms), confident, outgoing, mature (but not too serious), GSOH, and also has to be willing to try new things and get the most out of life. Not a lot to ask for really, is it :redface:

MMm, there's nothing like a good bookworm :smile:

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