Need advice on how to get over a bad fight with my partner, struggling to forgive him Watch

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He lost his temper and reacted in a physical way. Sorry but most people wouldn't physically restrain someone, maybe you would though. We'll agree to disagree on this one.
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No, it won't. This isn't a new relationship, he's a good person.
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There’s never an excuse for physical violence. I think the relationship is toxic on both sides and it’s probably time to release it. You need to work on your own issues before starting something again. It’s probably a co-dependent relationship at this stage.
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(Original post by earlybird88)
He lost his temper and reacted in a physical way. Sorry but most people wouldn't physically restrain someone, maybe you would though. We'll agree to disagree on this one.
I can have that effect on people sometimes, lol.
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I can have that effect on people sometimes, lol.
Everyone is extremely infuriating at times, but that’s no excuse.
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Everyone is extremely infuriating at times, but that’s no excuse.
It is in my case. I can be a horrible person sometimes, believe me.
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I'd just drink the glumness away, but that is neither sustainable nor healthy!
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I'd just drink the glumness away, but that is neither sustainable nor healthy!
Alcohol doesn't mix well with benzos, it turns me into a depressed af, grumpy mess. 😆
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Alcohol doesn't mix well with benzos, it turns me into a depressed af, grumpy mess. 😆
Oh shite yeah, I forget that you're on those things. Definitely do not follow my example!
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It is in my case. I can be a horrible person sometimes, believe me.
Everyone is capable of being great and horrible. You seem a bit lost, so you do things you’re not proud of. Nobody ever deserves to be abused. You should think about what you want from life and go for it. Don’t settle for a crappy relationship because you feel worthless.
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Oh shite yeah, I forget that you're on those things. Definitely do not follow my example!
Haha, sometimes I still drink tbh. Just not in the mood today.
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Everyone is capable of being great and horrible. You seem a bit lost, so you do things you’re not proud of. Nobody ever deserves to be abused. You should think about what you want from life and go for it. Don’t settle for a crappy relationship because you feel worthless.
Eh, I wouldn't call it crappy. We both have our issues but overall, he's a great guy. I stopped trying to figure out what I really want ages ago, lol.
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Haha, sometimes I still drink tbh. Just not in the mood today.

Eh, I wouldn't call it crappy. We both have our issues but overall, he's a great guy. I stopped trying to figure out what I really want ages ago, lol.
He’s not a great guy if he hits you. You’re worth more than that.
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He’s not a great guy if he hits you. You’re worth more than that.
It's not like he does it all the time. He's not a violent person, or anything. But thanks!
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