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So I've been talking to a guy and I really do like talking to him. But one time, I sent a voice note and he said I sounded like I was getting raped as a joke. Also this other time he said the n word in a passing comment and he's not even black. I don't know if these are red flags or I'm just deeping it way too much. Other than those instances, we get along really well. Idk what do you guys think? Should I just forget what he said as he did say it a couple months back and he probably didn't mean it or should I just stop talking to him? :-/
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So I've been talking to a guy and I really do like talking to him. But one time, I sent a voice note and he said I sounded like I was getting raped as a joke. Also this other time he said the n word in a passing comment and he's not even black. I don't know if these are red flags or I'm just deeping it way too much. Other than those instances, we get along really well. Idk what do you guys think? Should I just forget what he said as he did say it a couple months back and he probably didn't mean it or should I just stop talking to him? :-/
So I've been talking to a guy and I really do like talking to him. But one time, I sent a voice note and he said I sounded like I was getting raped as a joke. Also this other time he said the n word in a passing comment and he's not even black. I don't know if these are red flags or I'm just deeping it way too much. Other than those instances, we get along really well. Idk what do you guys think? Should I just forget what he said as he did say it a couple months back and he probably didn't mean it or should I just stop talking to him? :-/
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It clearly bothers you, so don't pursue him. He's shown you what his sense of humour is like and it doesn't sound like you agree with it.
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Try discussing your thoughts and feelings on these 'jokes' and see if he understands. I have a similar problem with my OH, he is a builder and when at work him and his mates joke about all sorts of things a lot of which I don't agree with or find funny, he has slipped up and made these jokes around me and I explained to him my thoughts on them and he knows not to make jokes about certain topics around me.
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