Hi all,
I’m in a tricky situation with my girlfriend of 4 months. I’m not feeling it anymore and I need to end it because it’s not fair on her. But there are a number of barriers to that.
I spoke to her about 3 weeks ago and said that she has been too obsessed and it’s putting me off. It got better for a week but now it’s back to me not being happy in the relationship. I would end it now but like I said there are barriers to that.
Next week, we start our A Level exams (for all you Americans these exams are crucial in getting into university and for your career) so I feel like it’d be unfair on her to do it before they’re over because it could ruin her life success.
Secondly, after these exams we are going on a group holiday to Greece, where she only knows one other person, a girl, that she didn’t know before we started going out. If I did it before this holiday it’d be quite awkward and again pretty unfair on her since it’s cost £400 (~$550) each.
Thirdly, the day we get back from Greece, another couple, me and my girlfriend are going to Cornwall (British beach holiday) with just us 4 and 2 lots of parents. I wouldn’t be able to do it before this because she’s staying with me between landing back home from Greece and leaving for Cornwall.
This would mean stringing out an unwanted relationship for almost a month which seems unrealistic and unfair.
Hence, you see my dilemma. If anyone has any advice on the best way to handle the situation I’d be greatly appreciative.
Thanks in advance,
Concerned Boyfriend