Do you think I've acted like a slut?

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Do you think I've acted like a slut?

I went to my best mate's boyfriend's this weekend, for the whole weekend, with her so as we could go to shows that were on on the Saturday.

when we were staying both nights, it was me, my mate, her boyfriend, his brother and his brother's best mate, cause i dont like 3rd Wheel Syndrom! His brother and his friend stayed so I wouldn't be myself.

I was in the same room as the two guys on Friday, so as not to disturb the love birds, anyways, i was a bit drunk, and so were they , and i ended up kissing my friend's boyfriend's brother, clearly not because i fancied him though, he's smaller than me, and not so nice looking! He made the move, and i wasnt really that bothered because I was drunk, so I kissed him back.

Then on saturday, me and my friend and the rest went to the show things, and we got drunk at the beer tent and ended up going down to the wee beachy bit and having a pure heart to heart about guys and sex and god knows what else. At this point I was getting a bit annoyed, because I was a virgin, and all my other friends have lost their virginity.

Anyway, I told my friend that I really wasn't interested in her boyfriend's brother, but I quite liked his friend, he seemed really nice, plus he was quite nice-looking. She told me that he thought the same about me, and so I should just go for it.

So, later on that night, we were all in the living room watching a film on the tv and I was still a bit drunk. me n the guy were sitting beside each other on the couch under a blanket, because it was freezing in the house, and he took my hand, we ended up kissing. Everyone else had fallen asleep, and so we went into an empty room, and things got a bit heated.

My friend's boyfriend's brother walked in (at a very very very bad moment), and started shouting at us, calling me a slapper, and saying his friend was a crap best pal and he was never talking to him again etc etc. He then came back in 2 mins later and asked if i was up for a threesome, and i told him to bugger off, and so he went away in a huff again.

At this point, my guy was being really nice and was like 'aw dont worry, he's just jealous, you're gorgeous...' etc etc etc

Anyways, morning time comes, and the brother has went away and went to stay with his gran for the night, and then he came on msn to me last night, calling me all sorts, him and his mate aren't talking at all now, and everyone up there thinks im a 'dirty slut'.

Thing is though, I don't understand how I can be a 'dirty slut', when that was my first time. I could understand their thinking if they didn't all know that, but they do! I'm supposed to be going up at the end of the month again for a party, but I don't really want to go if they're all going to treat me horribly, or talk about me behind my back. It's a pretty small place they stay in, so word gets around!

Do you think I've acted like a slapper?

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You're not anon....

ben_stretch

You're not anon....

I know, i de-anoned it. Everyone who cares knows anyways.

Reply 3

dh00001

ben_stretch

You're not anon....

so, you dont have to be :rolleyes:

op; i dont think youve really done much wrong. sounds to me hes just pissed he got rejected

Reply 4

PhyZ

Well, that's one way to go....

But no, I dont think so.

Reply 5

vi_26

no you aren't a slapper a bit tactless maybe but def not a slapper.

Reply 6

PhyZ

Well, that's one way to go....

But no, I dont think so.

Reply 7

bekahchu

The title just begs me to say "Yes you are a slut"

But no I don't think you are, they shouldn't have a problem, just tell them to piss off.

Reply 8

FizzBitch

Hoggster=)

He then came back in 2 mins later and asked if i was up for a threesome, and i told him to bugger off, and so he went away in a huff again.

sorry but this part really made me laugh!

Anyway...I think you're friends will get over it soon enough, everyone will probably have a gossip about it for a few days and then things will die down.

Reply 9

Bebbs

you refused the 3some, so you're not a slapper!

Reply 10

AntiLearner

How has this thread got 96 views in 6 minutes. :eek:

nope op don't think you did much wrong, it's your friend's brother who must've liked you and got upset by you and his mate, so he's called you names to everyone he knows. that's what it sounds like. just tell him you were drunk, maybe he thought you liked him when you kissed him.

Reply 11

xKarinx

The brother probably just liked you or something and maybe thought his luck was in when you kissed him, now he's angry at you for getting with his mate because he's jealous. I wouldn't say you're a slut

Reply 12

mufcno1

forget it tbh. if the brother came onto you at the start(like you said) then how can you be a slapper for not liking him? if it was you that went to get with both then i would probably say yes, but if you were never interested in the first place, and he took advantage of you when you were drunk, then why shouldnt you be able to get with the one you actually fancy?

if i was the brothers mate id tell him where to put it. sounds liek hes got small man syndrome

Reply 13

BeautifullyTragic

xKarinx

Ditto

****ing sket.

Hoggster=)

He then came back in 2 mins later and asked if i was up for a threesome, and i told him to bugger off, and so he went away in a huff again.

LOL!

I don't think you are a slapper, but perhaps try and stay sober a little more?

Reply 16

jinglepupskye

So basically you got drunk, got pee'd off about being a virgin and took the nearest bloke available for a quick fumble. How on earth could that possibly make you a slut?

ETA I hope you had the wit to take precautions against pregnancy and STDs.

Reply 17

nosnibor

I can see it from the brother's point of view, as you did kiss him on the first night, so he must have been shocked to see you having sex with his best friend the next night. From his perspective, you didn't even like his best friend, so I can see why he would call you a slut.

Honestly though? You're not a slut. Ignore the brother, or see if your mate's boyfriend will talk to him and tell him to stop calling you names. He's just jealous and immature.

Reply 18

Tinkerbee

aww man I really wanted to say yes of course you are filthy skank :s-smilie:

sadly, you are not

:p:

Reply 19

mufcno1

jinglepupskye

So basically you got drunk, got pee'd off about being a virgin and took the nearest bloke available for a quick fumble. How on earth could that possibly make you a slut?