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I've never been in a relationship... but I sorta want to...

I'm a 16 year old female bisexual kid, who just wants to be with someone. I've had people that I've liked but none that have liked me back. Most of these people are straight females so it really sucks to me be (especially since I go to an all 'girls' school) and I don't really socialise with many guys coz I'm just not that exposed to them.

Some of my crushes:

My first crush on a girl ended with me telling her that I liked her and everyone in the school knowing the next day. Not that great...

My other crush was on my friend. I told them that I liked someone in our school and they did try to guess but they didn't realise it was them and said that at least they knew it wasn't gonna be them ;-;

One of my most recent and possibly hardest is on a girl that I have most of my classes with. I'm sure she's straight and I think she has a boyfriend so I'm pretty sure it won't work and she only thinks of me as a classmate sorta friend ygm. Like we're not close at all.

The first two crushes are over but the last one is still sorta still lingering. Any advice on how I should go about things would be great and any ways that you've dealt with stuff would help me a bunch too.
Reply 1
i'm not horny btw just want to be in a genuine relationship...
I know. I have the same feeling. I am a straight male. I want to be able to trust someone and love someone. I want that feeling. And i want to be intoxicated. We could try it ya know? Give me a PM and we can have a chat
Reply 3
I'm 19 (straight, Male) and I've never been in a relationship either. It's probably to do with my weight, shyness, aspergers, etc but I've never really been approached by a girl and tend to just keep to myself. I've never kissed, held hands with or hugged a girl yet in my life, so I'm hoping I can change this when I get to university, improve myself physically and mentally, maybe have a girlfriend there and experience a first kiss 😅
Reply 4
aaaay mate i'm sure you're a great person <3 I was thinking the same about waiting a few more years till uni... i was also thinking about going to a mixed sixth form but I like my school so I don't think I will...
Original post by DanF2OOO
I'm 19 (straight, Male) and I've never been in a relationship either. It's probably to do with my weight, shyness, aspergers, etc but I've never really been approached by a girl and tend to just keep to myself. I've never kissed, held hands with or hugged a girl yet in my life, so I'm hoping I can change this when I get to university, improve myself physically and mentally, maybe have a girlfriend there and experience a first kiss 😅
Reply 5
no offence I don't know you that much but I don't really mind talking just casually if ygm... so yh I'll pm you
Original post by lukehake1
I know. I have the same feeling. I am a straight male. I want to be able to trust someone and love someone. I want that feeling. And i want to be intoxicated. We could try it ya know? Give me a PM and we can have a chat
Relationship is a very difficult thing, I think you will find your loved one.

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