Taking someones virginity..

Everyone's different. As a virgin myself, I wouldn't know. But I'd like the guy to be considerate, and ask me how I felt.

I think going slower the first time may help too.

Like you said - every girls' different. Some girls bleed a lot, some a little, some not at all. Her hymen may already be broken through tampons or other stuff. Never heard anyone say they could feel it though.

To be honest, it sounds like you answered your own question in the original topic

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I didn't bleed at all when I lost my virginty, but I had been doing horse riding for years and have a sneakling suspicion that my hymen was broken already. White sheets might be a bad idea, but a towel shouldn't be necessary. It might only serve to make her more nervous.

It might hurt her, so you need to make sure she is soaking wet first. Have some lube handy. When you come to enter her, be slow but firm, and stop if she asks you to. Make sure there is lots of kissing and cuddling first, so she is relaxed.

Communication is the key.

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The towel I wouldn't go with... you don't want to make it a bigger deal than it already is if that makes sense. If she bleeds then so be it... in to the washt he sheets go.

As for entering, just go as you see fit. You talk about her hymen as if your pushing through this tough barrier. Chances are, if she has any pain, it won't be that. The pain my first time was 'getting in'. Just do as you see fit. If she's in pain stop and yes, comfort her, dont ignore her... Can you tell what happened when I got upset coz it hurt?

Keep some stain stick handy just in case there's blood and you can't wash it in time. Blood (at least of the menstrual variety) is a pain to wash out.

Blood (at least of the menstrual variety) is a pain to wash out.

Keep some stain stick handy just in case there's blood and you can't wash it in time. Blood (at least of the menstrual variety) is a pain to wash out.

Go slow, don't make one giant thrust in. When I lost my virginity, the majority of the pain was from the guy being in there and myself needing to accommodate to him. A towel will be too much.

Seem's to be the reoccuring theme of accomodation problems , not so much the hymen. Thanks for the reply. And i've got some vanish for the sheets

Hrm, this is probably a bad time to be larger than average then. I think i'll just have to be careful. She's quite a shy girl though, would you feel it was better to ask her as things happen whether she feels okay etc or just go with it and stop if she says?

First stop worrying about your size lol. It will be fine, if not the first time then the next. You'll get there.

As for making sure she's ok, just a very quick and simple, sure ur ready, just before and then do it. Simple. She'll soon say stop if it's a problem at all. Just try to enjoy it, don't focus on it being her first time. She'l be depending on you to lead the way and be confident

Blood (at least of the menstrual variety) is a pain to wash out.

She's quite a shy girl though, would you feel it was better to ask her as things happen whether she feels okay etc or just go with it and stop if she says?

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