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Hi, I am a muslim girl and I have this major crush on this guy. The problem is relationships are haram and i'm only 15. help.
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evecornwellyt
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go for it life it too short, most of those judgmental grandmas married at like 15 anyways lol
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either put up with islam and leave him. or ditch islam and go for him.
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Its upto you girl...if you think its haram then try and stay away from him. but if your feelings keep building for him...I think you have ask him out.
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Hi, I am a muslim girl and I have this major crush on this guy. The problem is relationships are haram and i'm only 15. help.
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Depends on the strength of your imaan. It's natural to feel attracted to the opposite gender, and thinking about it is not a sin: this challenge has been put forward for us to overcome, to not act on base animal urges.Treat him as you would any normal person, and you'll soon grow out of the infatuation. Remember: Acting on it in reality is haraam, but thoughts alone are nothing to be ashamed of.
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(Original post by ambarhussain13)
Depends on the strength of your imaan. It's natural to feel attracted to the opposite gender, and thinking about it is not a sin: this challenge has been put forward for us to overcome, to not act on base animal urges.Treat him as you would any normal person, and you'll soon grow out of the infatuation. Remember: Acting on it in reality is haraam, but thoughts alone are nothing to be ashamed of.
Well said Hussain, you wouldn't happen to be still stuck in ancient arabia would you.
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This is the devil speaking, I think you should go for it.
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It's sad that young Muslim girls have to resort to asking for advice on simple, natural things such as being attracted to someone, because they've been told that it's 'haram'. It's sad that these girls have to feel oppressed about their thoughts and feelings because they can't think otherwise.

Acting on a completely natural attraction is 'haram'? To me that says far more about the religion and its rules, than the girl and her feelings...
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