Yes but you dont have to say everything do you? Not everyone needs to know; just those who are intimate with you. Also, people who call you nasty things are telling you that you don't need them as friends. Girls are allowed to have a strong sex drive!

Reply 14

Izzey

Original post by mgi

Yh but like if u with someone and u tell them after it ends everyone knows not just mates

Reply 15

mgi

Original post by Izzey

Yh but like if u with someone and u tell them after it ends everyone knows not just mates

Yes but you can't stop people talking about stuff behind your back. It doesn't make what they say true does it? When people are together they will automatically know after a while what your sex drive is like. The thing is you have to take your time and try to pick better guys who, even if you split up, will not talk about the sex with you. You really actually have to like yourself and when you really do then even if people think bad things about you then you will not care. I repeat -girls are allowed to have a high sex drive. You must try hard to be confident inside yourself. It really stops you suffering as much!

Reply 16

Izzey

Original post by mgi

Yh that really never happened tried so many times
But honestly never been able to be really confident

Reply 17

JTfoxlove

Totally normal.

Masturbation and sex for most people is a normal and healthy part of everyday life. Some people do it a lot some people do it a little and some people don't do it at all. All are absolutely normal.

For most people the only real way it can harm you is if you worry about doing it too much or allow yourself to be ashamed. As long as it's not negatively impacting your life - eg missing out on other things, stoping having other hobbies or socialising and it does not hurt - you can masturbate as much as you want.

Whether males or females masturbate the most frequent is very difficult to tell, as how would we know? There is a stigma around talking about sex and sexuality, there's also a prejudicial gender divide on these subjects so many people don't talk about these issues. Leaving others to worry that if they are normal or if what they are doing is harmful.

The truth is masturbation for all genders is normal from low to very high frequencies, as for that matter is choosing not to masturbation or not feeling the need to masturbate. Listen to your body, enjoy what you choose and don't worry.

:smile:

Reply 18

Autumnbelle

Original post by Muddy_Sneakers

honey don't worry I do it every day and I'm a girl...I think as women we need to be more open about our sexual needs.

Exactly!

Reply 19

Anonymous #2

Original post by Izzey

Yh but if u open up and say u really sexual then u get called a sl*g

No. That word is just a word used by people who feel the need to demonise women for liking a very normal thing. Anyone who’s told you that is incredibly immature and needs help. Women can masturbate/have sex as much as they want.. so long as everyone’s safe, so long as you’re enjoying yourself- it’s fine! Don’t let ignorant people put down a really normal activity like that.