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I'm nearly 18...

And I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months and I was thinking I would send him a half na*** photo, showing my top half. I trust him with my life! And I've been considering doing it for a while now.

Yes or no? Is it too risky...but I want to do it?
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Don't do it.
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dONT DDOOOOOIO ITTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT
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Wait till you're at least 18.
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Go ahead..if you put so much of trust in him...then you can make the right choice.
(Original post by Anonymous)
I'm nearly 18...

And I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months and I was thinking I would send him a half na*** photo, showing my top half. I trust him with my life! And I've been considering doing it for a while now.

Yes or no? Is it too risky...but I want to do it?
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No.
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If you were to break-up do you think he would show his friends? Or threaten to blackmail you?

I've been blackmailed by two different guys I trusted. The former apparently recorded a video of me performing fellatio on him without my consent, and if it's real I wouldn't be surprised if it's on the internet somewhere as we ended on very bad terms (we're talking him getting kicked out of college and people encouraging me to get the police involved). Another threatened to post a photograph he took of me in just lingerie when he thought I was the one spreading rumours about him after we broke-up (I wasn't - I later found out it was the guy I dated after him who started that).

On the other hand, I've also been involved with guys who were respectful and either kept photos to themselves or deleted them after (their word, I didn't see evidence). So not all guys are terrible. But the thing is you don't know what sort of guy they are until after you break-up and see their true colours.
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if you dont want to do it because you dont trust him, you shouldnt be with him anyway
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He definitely wouldn't do that to me. No.
Yeah he said he would keep the photo to himself x

(Original post by sinfonietta)
If you were to break-up do you think he would show his friends? Or threaten to blackmail you?

I've been blackmailed by two different guys I trusted. The former apparently recorded a video of me performing fellatio on him without my consent, and if it's real I wouldn't be surprised if it's on the internet somewhere as we ended on very bad terms (we're talking him getting kicked out of college and people encouraging me to get the police involved). Another threatened to post a photograph he took of me in just lingerie when he thought I was the one spreading rumours about him after we broke-up (I wasn't - I later found out it was the guy I dated after him who started that).

On the other hand, I've also been involved with guys who were respectful and either kept photos to themselves or deleted them after (their word, I didn't see evidence). So not all guys are terrible. But the thing is you don't know what sort of guy they are until after you break-up and see their true colours.
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While you are under 18, you are legally a minor and an over 18 discovered in possession of your nudes risks being arrested.
If you send any topless or other partially nude photographs that includes your face, you risk being the victim of revenge porn.
Would you be happy for your father, siblings and neighbours to see these pictures?
If not- don't send.
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just send a rough pencil sketch instead
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I'm nearly 18...

And I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months and I was thinking I would send him a half na*** photo, showing my top half. I trust him with my life! And I've been considering doing it for a while now.

Yes or no? Is it too risky...but I want to do it?
Personally I don’t think this is a good idea whether you trust them or not as if you fall out or something they could post it around for revenge or something
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(Original post by Anonymous)
He definitely wouldn't do that to me. No.
Yeah he said he would keep the photo to himself x
I'm sure he means that now, and you may well be right to trust him now. However, nobody who has been blackmailed has an incling of suspicion that their partner would do that to them (together or not). The nature of relationships (particularly at your age) is they come and go, odds are it's going to end. When/if you break up, that photo is likely to loom over you.

However, if you insist on sending the photo, make sure you don't include your face. I can assure you though, if you don't send the photo you won't regret it! You may well regret the inverse.
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This comment was actually reassuring thank you! i'll definitely think twice of doing it x
Yeah i was planning to cover my face with my phone. If that's enough?
Thanks for this comment x
(Original post by henry1999)
I'm sure he means that now, and you may well be right to trust him now. However, nobody who has been blackmailed has an incling of suspicion that their partner would do that to them (together or not). The nature of relationships (particularly at your age) is they come and go, odds are it's going to end. When/if you break up, that photo is likely to loom over you.

However, if you insist on sending the photo, make sure you don't include your face. I can assure you though, if you don't send the photo you won't regret it! You may well regret the inverse.
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Not the best idea.
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No don’t do it because knowing boys if you broke up he’d expose it he maybe not be like that but still you shouldn’t have to do that
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You said it yourself, "maybe"
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No don’t do it because knowing boys if you broke up he’d expose it he maybe not be like that but still you shouldn’t have to do that
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superimpose your head onto a top model's body
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I'm nearly 18...

And I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months and I was thinking I would send him a half na*** photo, showing my top half. I trust him with my life! And I've been considering doing it for a while now.

Yes or no? Is it too risky...but I want to do it?
man your 18............................. WTF WHY?
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Maybe let him see in person instead of sending it including your face?

DONT SENT A PHOTO WITH YOUR FACE!!!! THATS NUDE SENDING 101!!

Also, if you really wonna send it, send your..... top half without your face and then send a face pic WITH clothes from another angle. If he start to demand your nudes with your face pic.....gurl he’s defo up to something
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