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I lost my virginity to my boyfriend around a month ago and we’ve had sexual intercourse around 3 times. It obviously hurt as I’ve never had anything in me before, but I thought it would slowly get more comfortable for me. Everytime we’ve had sex, I bled and it didn’t seem normal. Today we had sex and the pain was unreal, I couldn’t enjoy myself so we stopped. Before anyone says anything I was sexually aroused and I was wet, we also used a lot of lube, the pain was still killing me. I then went toilet to piss and it BURNED. I had sex around 3 hours ago and my vagina is literally throbbing. Why is it like this? I also do not have any infections or anything as I got tested and got a swab test done to check for everything as I thought I had a yeast infection but both tests came clean .
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I'd say doing some research online might be good - I'm sure there's lots of women who have had similar experiences.
Also, if you comfortable, you could ask your GP about this? Everyone deserves an enjoyable sex life, and I'm sure there's lots of adjustments to the typical idea of sex so that it is enjoyable and less painful for all involved.
Also, the youtube channel called "sexplanations" has lots of good resources on sex, done by a sexologist.
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I lost my virginity to my boyfriend around a month ago and we’ve had sexual intercourse around 3 times. It obviously hurt as I’ve never had anything in me before, but I thought it would slowly get more comfortable for me. Everytime we’ve had sex, I bled and it didn’t seem normal. Today we had sex and the pain was unreal, I couldn’t enjoy myself so we stopped. Before anyone says anything I was sexually aroused and I was wet, we also used a lot of lube, the pain was still killing me. I then went toilet to piss and it BURNED. I had sex around 3 hours ago and my vagina is literally throbbing. Why is it like this? I also do not have any infections or anything as I got tested and got a swab test done to check for everything as I thought I had a yeast infection but both tests came clean .
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I lost my virginity to my boyfriend around a month ago and we’ve had sexual intercourse around 3 times. It obviously hurt as I’ve never had anything in me before, but I thought it would slowly get more comfortable for me. Everytime we’ve had sex, I bled and it didn’t seem normal. Today we had sex and the pain was unreal, I couldn’t enjoy myself so we stopped. Before anyone says anything I was sexually aroused and I was wet, we also used a lot of lube, the pain was still killing me. I then went toilet to piss and it BURNED. I had sex around 3 hours ago and my vagina is literally throbbing. Why is it like this? I also do not have any infections or anything as I got tested and got a swab test done to check for everything as I thought I had a yeast infection but both tests came clean .
It may be that you aren't feeling relaxed during sex and involuntarily you have muscle spasms which makes penetration difficult. It's called vaginismus. It's quite a common problem and I have it too. What helps me is to first get comfortable with the guy being naked and take it slow. Spend lots of time on foreplay before penetration.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I lost my virginity to my boyfriend around a month ago and we’ve had sexual intercourse around 3 times. It obviously hurt as I’ve never had anything in me before, but I thought it would slowly get more comfortable for me. Everytime we’ve had sex, I bled and it didn’t seem normal. Today we had sex and the pain was unreal, I couldn’t enjoy myself so we stopped. Before anyone says anything I was sexually aroused and I was wet, we also used a lot of lube, the pain was still killing me. I then went toilet to piss and it BURNED. I had sex around 3 hours ago and my vagina is literally throbbing. Why is it like this? I also do not have any infections or anything as I got tested and got a swab test done to check for everything as I thought I had a yeast infection but both tests came clean .
Go and see your GP. You may have a condition called Vaginismus.
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Yep, spot on advice so far. Go see your GP or Sexual Health clinic. From what you've described something isn't right. Get a fully qualified specialist to investigate this.
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