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Hii,

So recently me and my ‘bestfriend’ have kind of lost any connection. She has a lot of friends now, and invited me to go clubbing with these friends to which I said, no thanks i’ll pass, and she replied with ‘you’re boring’.

I dont think we seem to have anything common left anymore. I’m kind of struggling with my oen poor mental health and I dont think she understands.

Is this normal? What do I do in this situation?
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Wtf she shouldn’t say you’re boring that’s rude. If you didn’t want to go, she should’ve respected that. If you want change or a bit distance from her, you could make new friends or focusing on yourself and maybe helping your mental health even a bit (idk much about mental health so I’m really sorry). However, if you want to still be her friend, you could talk to her about it or just be there for her (but if she isn’t there for you, if I was you, I wouldn’t want to be treated like that and find new people). I’m really sorry if this isn’t helpful; you don’t have to follow to my suggestions but I hope you feel better? I’m so sorry
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(Original post by PetitePanda)
Wtf she shouldn’t say you’re boring that’s rude. If you didn’t want to go, she should’ve respected that. If you want change or a bit distance from her, you could make new friends or focusing on yourself and maybe helping your mental health even a bit (idk much about mental health so I’m really sorry). However, if you want to still be her friend, you could talk to her about it or just be there for her (but if she isn’t there for you, if I was you, I wouldn’t want to be treated like that and find new people). I’m really sorry if this isn’t helpful; you don’t have to follow to my suggestions but I hope you feel better? I’m so sorry
Thank you for the advice !
You see the thing is, I dont have many friends in the first place, and Im not someone that finds it particularly easy making friends either. She’s my pnly friend that I’ve kept in contact with for years now and I’m not sure if cutting her off is the right thing to do. We’ve made plans for the summer e.g going travelling, but in all honesty im not sure thats the best idea. Firstly, because she is a lot more well off than I (so I dont want to have any awkward conversations as naturally I will be on a budget during this trip as I’ll be earning my own money for it), and secondly because if she already thinks im ‘boring’- perhaps travelling together isnt the best idea.

I’m in two minds about the whole thing
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Thank you for the advice !
You see the thing is, I dont have many friends in the first place, and Im not someone that finds it particularly easy making friends either. She’s my pnly friend that I’ve kept in contact with for years now and I’m not sure if cutting her off is the right thing to do. We’ve made plans for the summer e.g going travelling, but in all honesty im not sure thats the best idea. Firstly, because she is a lot more well off than I (so I dont want to have any awkward conversations as naturally I will be on a budget during this trip as I’ll be earning my own money for it), and secondly because if she already thinks im ‘boring’- perhaps travelling together isnt the best idea.

I’m in two minds about the whole thing
You don’t have to cut her off but widen your friendship group while still being with her. You can always find friends - Ik you can do it so dw about that. Are you sure she’s still on for those plans for the summer?
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Spend less time with her, she sounds negative
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Hii,

So recently me and my ‘bestfriend’ have kind of lost any connection. She has a lot of friends now, and invited me to go clubbing with these friends to which I said, no thanks i’ll pass, and she replied with ‘you’re boring’.

I dont think we seem to have anything common left anymore. I’m kind of struggling with my oen poor mental health and I dont think she understands.

Is this normal? What do I do in this situation?
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(Original post by PetitePanda)
You don’t have to cut her off but widen your friendship group while still being with her. You can always find friends - Ik you can do it so dw about that. Are you sure she’s still on for those plans for the summer?
Yeah, im pretty sure. We’ve been planning it for months. I think she’ll get kinda mad if I suddenly say i’ve changed my mind when I’m the one who encouraged it in the first place
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Spend less time with her, she sounds negative
I think because she is my ‘bestfriend’ its hard not to talk to her/ spend time with her. I’ve know her for around 8 years and cutting her off isnt an option, i dont think ?
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Yeah, im pretty sure. We’ve been planning it for months. I think she’ll get kinda mad if I suddenly say i’ve changed my mind when I’m the one who encouraged it in the first place
If you’re pretty sure then that’s good I hope you guys have fun for the summer - hopefully you’ll become less distant on it
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