Is it immoral to ask my boyfriend to cut down on weed?Watch
When he is high he becomes annoying and vacant, and he knows it makes me unhappy yet he continues to do it (despite countless broken promises that he would cut down).
I know it is wrong to try and change someone for who they are, and that I should love him as he is. I also don't want to act as a third parent, or for him to miss out on fun times with friends because i wont let him smoke with them. However, I cannot stand the idea that he would choose this drug over me. I can nearly always tell when he is high (i think) even though sometimes he tries to deny it.
He has agreed to cut down to smoking a couple of times a week, although I am not sure how long this will last. Is it wrong of me to ask this? Should i leave him ( i really dont want to do this) if he cant cut down because I dont want a stoner for a boyfriend?
I know it is wrong to try and change someone for who they are, and that I should love him as he is.