Hi,
I’m 21 and I feel like I should kind of know my sexuality at this point, but truth is I’ve only had 1 boyfriend and we were each others firsts and were together for 2 years. At school all my crushes were on boys, although I did find myself gazing at girls who I thought were pretty. Recently I was at a bar with my friends and I saw this girl and she was beautiful, and absolute stunner, I actually couldn’t stop staring and I really just wanted to kiss her or just get close to her. It was an overwhelming feeling and I’ve never really felt that way about a guy. I have kissed girls before (they were friends - as a dare you know) so obviously there was no romantic click but to rip off Katy Perry - I liked it. Ive thinking about it and I’m just so unsure whether I would want to be sexual with a woman, to go all the way. With guys I know I do, but I keep thinking about women and it’s like I want to try something but psychologically it wouldn’t feel right. Do you think I’m just a confused straight person? I’d just like to hear strangers thoughts because if I said this friends or family they would think I was admitting I was bi and that’s not the case (not that there’s anything wrong with being bi but you know what I mean, I wouldn’t want to give them an impression that even I’m unsure of). Can anyone give me their thoughts?