I don't know, the fact I won't exactly be myself? I am literally using chemicals to "fix" my thoughts. It's a scary thing. I don't want to become more apathetic.
I feel ungrateful because I got into the university of my CHILDHOOD dreams for my *dream* degree, and despite everything going perfectly I am still a sad sod. It's disgusting. It's spiralling towards self-hatred if I'm honest.
I have finished first year, and I have written my exams well enough in order to proceed to 2nd year. So thankfully that is not an issue. I also do not want to take a year off, it'd just... mess me up a lot?
I guess I can't pinpoint exactly why I don't want them, other than the "control" thing. I hate being out of control, and antidepressants would technically give me control back over my feelings, but it wouldn't be coming "intrinsically" from myself. So hence why I'm so hesitant. My boyfriend's lovely, but he's already gone through a lot with me. My coming out + his patience around everything to do with me finding myself... I feel bad dragging him in further.
Definitely want to look at alternatives. CBD being one of them. thank you
I kinda answered why I can't get over the idea of anti depression in the answer above, but yeah. Loss of control. Loss of emotions (possibly). And (this might sound stupid as a 19 year old), but... loss of libido?
See, I thought maybe the place was too rigorous, that the stereotypical private school kid vibe will scare me off. But all the people met (well, most of them) are lovely! They're very supportive but they also have their own s*hit they're dealing with, and I prefer to listen to others and help them rather than help myself.
I love the rigorous structure, the supervisions, the workload... it's hard but it's fun. Even my college is great and I have a beautiful room (though I guess that'll change after summer). It's not the typical course structure I suppose, since I have had no patient contact yet, but I knew that when signing up to this university. So the place isn't as much of an issue. And I'm not that far away from home either, 2-3 hours tops. Only thing that's overwhelming is that everyone's "perfect" to the public eye. Reading a 600page novel in a day? Nothing special anymore here. Speaking multiple languages? Basically taken for granted. Perhaps adjusting to being "Average" is taking a toll? But that makes me seem incredibly narcissistic, and I wouldn't consider myself that...
Yeah, I'm kinda lost.