What do I do?? As i don't want to break my best friends heart and upset them by saying that the guy says your not a thing . But I don't want to lose them as a best friend if they found out that I ask they guy and he said No and I didn't tell my friend that
It seems that things have gotten complicated from reading the rest of your thread. If he is not answering either of you, then just let him be for now. As for your best friend, it may be best to tell her what he told you. Though it's going to complicate things more and most likely become a bigger drama, it is better for her to know that he does not think the same way. Just be prepared for the backlash, because if you decide to tell her, she will most likely confront him about it. Unfortunately you already got yourself involved and if your best friend finds out you knew all this time, she will be very upset with you and him.
I said that I asked him and he didn't seam sure as he said No when I asked about them both being a thing but she said he kissed her on lips, I have told her to ask her parents what to do as well.
I agree with sinfonietta, kissing does not equal to being official. I think you and your friend are making a tornado in a cup of water. It's not that deep. Let them resolve their issues and step out of the situation. If he is playing her, she'll find out either way. As for asking her parents, all they can do is advice her on what to do regarding this. The point is to find out if he is taking your best friend as serious as she's taking him. That's the whole problem. Let them resolve it on their own and step out.
I think that she really worried that hes not answering any messages and calls of her and wondering does he still love her. I have told he Im here if she wants to talk and basically what i got from what he said when I asked are you a thing and he said NO - That she likes him more than he likes her- If hes not replying to her messages or calls then to me that suggests it was more like a holiday romance as last week his insta wasn't private and I could see his posts and now it is and he has removed me from S/C and not accepting either of us- So I think hes hiding somthing.. But im going to step back and see what happens