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I am such a bad girlfriend to my boy but last night I cheated on him for the 2nd time, the first time he forgave me after a week of not talking but last night I got really drunk and slept with this guy, today all I have done is cry because of what I did, I need advice, should I tell my boyfriend or keep quiet and hope he doesn't find out?
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Tell your lad he could find out eventually and it’s going to be bad for him since you didn’t tell him first. If you don’t tell him, he’s gonna think you were cheating on him intentionally behind his back
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You have to tell him. It sounds mean but if you really liked him enough for this to work long term you wouldn't have cheated. A kiss can be almost accidental but there are a lot of steps required to go through with sleeping with someone else so clearly your boyfriend isn't enough for you and he's not going to be the one. It's going to be hard but ultimately it'll be better for him not to keep hoping there's something there that isn't and it'll be better for you to find someone who you care enough about not to cheat on. If you don't tell him you just drag this on to the next time you cheat whereas if you come clean and it ends now you can both start again with different people who you're better suited to. A rough life lesson unfortunately.
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(Original post by Llama lass)
I am such a bad girlfriend to my boy but last night I cheated on him for the 2nd time, the first time he forgave me after a week of not talking but last night I got really drunk and slept with this guy, today all I have done is cry because of what I did, I need advice, should I tell my boyfriend or keep quiet and hope he doesn't find out?
Keep quiet about it and see it as a very hard lesson learnt.
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You got no control on yourself. You should tell him.
May the future be kind with that boy.
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Your boyfriend is not the man for you. So you can either tell him or not tell him but you must let him go. That is the fairest thing all round.
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He deserves better, tell him and leave
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The troll hasn’t responded...
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why even be with someone if you cheat?
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(Original post by Llama lass)
I am such a bad girlfriend to my boy but last night I cheated on him for the 2nd time, the first time he forgave me after a week of not talking but last night I got really drunk and slept with this guy, today all I have done is cry because of what I did, I need advice, should I tell my boyfriend or keep quiet and hope he doesn't find out?
Tell him, he deserves to know.
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The lesson here is, if getting drunk makes you promiscuous, then don't drink.
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You cheated oh him twice wtf😲.
You should tell him and then your boyfriend should dump you
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