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22 and never been kissed :'(

Hi, I know this is silly and petty but I need help. Basically I'm a 22 year old girl whose never been kissed other than when I practice on pillows :frown: None of my friends know, I lie and make myself out to be a bit of a slag so I don't look like a freak :frown:
Basically my sister's getting married in a week, and the groom is really hot (lol). Only thing is, I think there's something between us. We've never said or done anything, but whenever he says hello to me he kisses my cheek. Also, I find that whenever I look at him he'll smile at me. This must be love, right? I don't know whether to say anything or just talk to him about his love for me when my sisters not around.
As horrible as it sounds, if given the chance I would be with him forever. I think about him all the time and want my first snog (lol) to be with him. I really think he loves me more than her, he even got me a gift certificate for £10 for New Look for my birthday! This can't just be the love for his new wifes sister, can it?
I would like your opinion before I do something wrong, as this is new terotory for me. Thanks so much for your time :smile:

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Reply 1

Don't feed the troll.

Reply 2

Wellclevar
Hi, I know this is silly and petty but I need help. Basically I'm a 22 year old girl whose never been kissed other than when I practice on pillows :frown: None of my friends know, I lie and make myself out to be a bit of a slag so I don't look like a freak :frown:
Basically my sister's getting married in a week, and the groom is really hot (lol). Only thing is, I think there's something between us. We've never said or done anything, but whenever he says hello to me he kisses my cheek. Also, I find that whenever I look at him he'll smile at me. This must be love, right? I don't know whether to say anything or just talk to him about his love for me when my sisters not around.
As horrible as it sounds, if given the chance I would be with him forever. I think about him all the time and want my first snog (lol) to be with him. I really think he loves me more than her, he even got me a gift certificate for £10 for New Look for my birthday! This can't just be the love for his new wifes sister, can it?
I would like your opinion before I do something wrong, as this is new terotory for me. Thanks so much for your time :smile:



No, no, NO.

For the love of Yahweh, please do not project your self-loathing onto your sister.

I vote troll too.

Reply 3

I think your post is a troll. If not, no he doesn't love you, he's being friendly. Try internet dating.

Reply 4

Congratulations, you're officially a bad person.

Reply 5

Troll.

Reply 6

...You want to steal your sisters future husband?

Niiiiice

Reply 7

This has to be a troll.

Reply 8

Waat, This Is Either Made Up Or You Need To Check Yourself

ur sad

Reply 9

f/o

Reply 10

yeah im guessing its a joke aswell

Reply 11

Wellclevar
Hi, I know this is silly and petty but I need help. Basically I'm a 22 year old girl whose never been kissed other than when I practice on pillows :frown: None of my friends know, I lie and make myself out to be a bit of a slag so I don't look like a freak :frown:
Basically my sister's getting married in a week, and the groom is really hot (lol). Only thing is, I think there's something between us. We've never said or done anything, but whenever he says hello to me he kisses my cheek. Also, I find that whenever I look at him he'll smile at me. This must be love, right? I don't know whether to say anything or just talk to him about his love for me when my sisters not around.
As horrible as it sounds, if given the chance I would be with him forever. I think about him all the time and want my first snog (lol) to be with him. I really think he loves me more than her, he even got me a gift certificate for £10 for New Look for my birthday! This can't just be the love for his new wifes sister, can it?
I would like your opinion before I do something wrong, as this is new terotory for me. Thanks so much for your time :smile:


Without dashing your dreams, I would say yes, £10 new look vouchers unfortunately don't equal love. Your time will come, don't worry about your sisters guy. There is most probably nothing there and even if there was you wouldn't want to ruin things for your sister would you ?

Reply 12

You guys are nasty.

I think if it was a troll post then it would be Anon.

Reply 13

I don't know what a troll is, but I didn't mean to offend anyone. I love my sister, but shes so pretty she could get another guy. I'm not so lucky. I just think I deserve a chance at love.
I'm so sorry to upset anyone, I just need help.

Reply 14

I don't think a smile, a kiss on the cheek and a £10 gift voucher is much of an indication that he's in love with you.

Reply 15

Wellclevar
Hi, I know this is silly and petty but I need help. Basically I'm a 22 year old girl whose never been kissed other than when I practice on pillows :frown: None of my friends know, I lie and make myself out to be a bit of a slag so I don't look like a freak :frown:
Basically my sister's getting married in a week, and the groom is really hot (lol). Only thing is, I think there's something between us. We've never said or done anything, but whenever he says hello to me he kisses my cheek. Also, I find that whenever I look at him he'll smile at me. This must be love, right? I don't know whether to say anything or just talk to him about his love for me when my sisters not around.
As horrible as it sounds, if given the chance I would be with him forever. I think about him all the time and want my first snog (lol) to be with him. I really think he loves me more than her, he even got me a gift certificate for £10 for New Look for my birthday! This can't just be the love for his new wifes sister, can it?
I would like your opinion before I do something wrong, as this is new terotory for me. Thanks so much for your time :smile:


Sorry but no. I really think you're reading too much into it.

Reply 16

LOL, what has the world come to when a £10 gift certificate = love. :rofl:

Reply 17

2 Things:

He's the groom. Forget it. Lock it up in a mental box and get rid. Call The Haitian and get him to sort it out if you want.

Cliche time, there are lots of guys out there that you could kiss. Honestly, if you go out and find them then you could just from a really great bunch. It only takes a couple of seconds to have your first kiss, so it could just happen tomorrow. One thing I found that was stopping me was wanting it to be absolutely perfect, a situation which doesn't really exist. If you want to kiss someone go out and kiss someone.

Reply 18

Ahh actually with 2 posts this is fake.

Reply 19

Deluded trolls are deluded.