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Guys......
I want to open up.. Before i say anything i am a very protective and vunerable person and this topic is very personal, but i am not doing this anonymously. My girlfriend has a lot of 'boy' friends and she hangs around a lot with them, we go different schools therefore i can only see her on weekends, I spend alot of money on her, like i bought her a pandora bracelet. But a few days ago one of her friends texted that she slept with another boy. What do i do????
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Edit: when i say 'again' my friends told me before that the slept with someone, but then i found out it was just a joke. But this time its coming from her friend. so i dont know what to do
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Send a screenshot of it to her with a “?”

We can’t help you.

Ps- Are you still trying to show the sexism on TSR?
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no, if u thread the description i said that this is personal and i find it hard to talk about this
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Send a screenshot of it to her with a “?”

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You need to tell her, why would her friend do that if it wasn't true? And if it was true, why would her friend to that also, she should
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the thing is her friends knows that it was a prank before, and i know her friend well. in fact i knew the friend before her thats how we met. And u can say that me and her friend always joke around and just annoy each other
(Original post by SlightlySummer)
You need to tell her, why would her friend do that if it wasn't true? And if it was true, why would her friend to that also, she should
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But im too scared too, what it fi ruines our relationship
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Send a screenshot of it to her with a “?”

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I read the title as; ops I did it again
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huh?
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I read the title as; ops I did it again
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(Original post by batter mix)
send a screenshot of it to her with a “?”

we can’t help you.

Ps- are you still trying to show the sexism on tsr?
bahaha thats what i thought he was tryna prove
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An old song
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huh?
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bahaha thats what i thought he was tryna prove
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Confront her.
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irrelevant. If u read the desciption u would have seen that this is a personal topic to me
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An old song
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Right, you need to take back eveything you bought her (I hope you kept all the receipt). If she dont agree, get a lawayer on her arse, after that just find another girl to **** n dont spend money on her. Boom you'll be livin you're best life

Thank me later.
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(Original post by Hugh.Jazz)
But im too scared too, what it fi ruines our relationship
What if you owned a car that you loved and it had a major mechanical fault, such as the suspension collapsing that led you to crashing in it?
Would you try to repair it or would you get another car?

If you were renting a flat that you loved and it had an electric fault that caused a large fire, what would you do? Would you find another flat?

If there was a restaurant that you enjoyed going to regularly, but then every time you went there you got food poisoning, would you keep going back or would you start eating somewhere else?

In the grand scheme of things, would it really be such a bad thing if, in all these circumstances, if you moved on to a new car, flat, restaurant, girlfriend?
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(Original post by Ashi.)
Right, you need to take back eveything you bought her (I hope you kept all the receipt). If she dont agree, get a lawayer on her arse, after that just find another girl to **** n dont spend money on her. Boom you'll be livin you're best life

Thank me later.
This. OP just move on. There's plenty of fish in the sea
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(Original post by Hugh.Jazz)
irrelevant. If u read the desciption u would have seen that this is a personal topic to me
its jus a joke
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Look buddy you have 3 options here:

1. You ask her about it and she tells the truth and you can carry on trusting her and get on with life.

2. You ask her, she gets all defensive and avoids the question and tries to blame you. You dump her right there and then, she is a toxic ***** and trust me my ex was like that she will make you feel shite.

3. You don't ask her and you just try and ignore it/ ask her friends. This will lead to a very *****y relationship for you as you won't trust her.

Also word of advice: don't spend lots of money on a S.O. She should love you for you and spending money on her will just spoil her and set unrealistic expectations. No materialistic thing in the world should matter to her more than being with you (with a few exceptions).

Good luck buddy, despite what happens know that you didn't do anything wrong and hold your head up high knowing that.
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