What do I do?

What do you mean by "you cheated on him"? What exactly did you do?

If you both still love each other and he's willing to forgive then don't make yourselves unhappy by not being together :smile:

Reply 4

catbee

8

If you both still love each other, and he is willing to forgive your cheating, then why not give it another go, properly?

I dont undestand the need for the secrecy?!

If its because your / his friends wont like it, then stuff them, after all, is it not your own happiness that comes first?

Come clean and start living your life together in the open and not shrouded in secrecy....

Reply 5

Um, I broke up with him during the first year, but we got back together. I struggle with commitment, well... I just get all silly and convince myself i don't deserve him so set out to destroy it. I've changed alot, but I'm worried I'll do it again. And all our friends just say we shouldn't. I told one of my friends that I'm still involved with him and she got very angry at me about it. I do really love him.

Reply 6

O, And i kissed another guy, well spent the whole night with that guy, but went no more than kissing and dancing. Mainly cause my friend dragged me to her house. Lol.

Reply 7

O, And i've done rubbish at being anon. Hmm.

Reply 8

pink_cait

O, And i kissed another guy, well spent the whole night with that guy, but went no more than kissing and dancing. Mainly cause my friend dragged me to her house. Lol.

IMO a kiss isn't a big deal. I don't see why you don't just get back with him.

Reply 9

Cause everyone is gay, when i said it wasn't a big deal i got yelled at by my ex and my best friend. hmm.

i want to get back with him.

but he also likes not having a girlfriend but having someone to have sex with.

Reply 10

Vampyrcorn

what have your friends got to do with it?

Reply 11

Vampyrcorn

what have your friends got to do with it?

Exactly.

Reply 12

Lol. I'm not quite sure. I don't wanna be told I'm using him again.

Reply 13

Tbh, you come across as too immature for a relationship.

Reply 14

Thanks, I probably am.

Cool.

I'm in year 12, aged 16. Lead quite a sheltered life. And my ex has severe ADHD... Thus we are quite immature, lol :smile:

i don't mind, whats the point of being old. Haha.

Reply 17

Archangel's Kiss

Anonymous

Ok, I went out with someone for 2 years and then cheated on him during a drunken party. I fessed up straight away, and broke up with him because I didn't wanna hurt him anymore. This was 6 months ago. Since then we've been secretly seeing each other and still sleeping together, but our friends keep taking us out and trying to get us with other people. I am in love with him, and he texts me all the time saying he loves me. Should I end this so he can move on?

You cheated on him and fessed up! Which is the most important thing the next is that you gotta see if he forgives you or not.. But since you guys are in love with each other and still see each other then I guess he did..
Whay you need to do is talk to him about it and ask him does he forgive you.. If he does then go forward with it and continue what you had! Plus the fact that he texts you and tells you that he loves you shows that he forgives you and wants to be with you!
Talk to him about it and make it all cleared up for both of ur sakes!

Reply 18

theredwindmill

9

If he is prepaired to forgive and you both still love each other then get back together. Tell your friends, and if they say your using him then that is their opinion but it doesn't mean it is truth

ps i apologise for my awful spelling

Reply 19