I'm not sure how to explain this, but because I have been so obsessed with school work and grades for years, any leisure activities I have done have just been a release from exams. Therefore, what I am trying to say is that I don't really know what I am genuinely interested in. I am leaning towards writing and I like some works of art, but I don't know why and music with in-depth lyrics Also, I tend to enjoy things if I am good at them. Because I have only done air-headed things as a sheer escape route, I don't know if this is really who I am or whether my more intellectaul pursuits are forced. What's more, I have never really had an intellectual coversation as all I did in my spare time were air-headed things to get away from school work.
Basically, I am trying to discover myself and am thus lost.
Any advice at all on this would be much appreciated!
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- Thread Starter
- 08-06-2008 19:59
- 08-06-2008 20:19
hm dont really know what to suggest because im kind of the same as u.
what about going away somewhere by yourself and try lots of new things in the summer, or do some volunteer work. it may help you find what you really enjoy
- 08-06-2008 20:23
Try new things. It's the only way! I know what you mean though, my life was 100% thrown into horses before uni, now i'm pretty lost!