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Do you think this is haram?

So I found this website a couple days ago through looking to see how haram masterbation and porn in Islam since I’ve been battling with this for a couple of years and to try to refrain from doing so but I’ve learned most Muslims do it and that you should just try to restrain as much as possible. Which made it nice to hear and I liked hearing about this stuff but, the thing is that while in the process of reading others tips and experiences some of the things talked about women and their experiences which like most guys (I hope not just me) would get aroused. I don’t know if this is haram that I’ve read some of these. I never acted on these urges so far but I would keep reading them. I would like to know if you guys think this is haram.

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If you follow a religion then I guess you have to worry about whether or not you're breaking that religion's rules. This is why atheism rocks.
Nope, god won’t punish you for being aroused. And it certainly isn’t wrong. It’s only wrong when it’s a kid or summeh
Reading those things knowing that they would make you aroused is probably haram, yeah
He has a list of Haram things and if you don’t follow his list he has a special place for you full of pain, burning, torture, anguish where he will send you to suffer and burn until the end of time......but he loves you.

There is probably no God...now go and enjoy your life and be kind to everyone you meet.
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Original post by CHANELDIAMONDS
It’s only wrong when it’s a kid or summeh

Is that haram? Muhammad and a child Aisha suggests otherwise.
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Original post by RaGe Beast
So I found this website a couple days ago through looking to see how haram masterbation and porn in Islam since I’ve been battling with this for a couple of years and to try to refrain from doing so but I’ve learned most Muslims do it and that you should just try to restrain as much as possible. Which made it nice to hear and I liked hearing about this stuff but, the thing is that while in the process of reading others tips and experiences some of the things talked about women and their experiences which like most guys (I hope not just me) would get aroused. I don’t know if this is haram that I’ve read some of these. I never acted on these urges so far but I would keep reading them. I would like to know if you guys think this is haram.


Yes, as a Muslim woman I can advise you to keep away from the site.
Haraam comes in all sorts of forms and this is one of them. :h:
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Original post by black tea
Reading those things knowing that they would make you aroused is probably haram, yeah


Does the Qur'an not talk of sensual houris/virgins in paradise? If someone (somehow) got aroused by that, it would be pretty hard telling him (or her) to avoid reading the Qur'an!
Original post by Ascend
Is that haram? Muhammad and a child Aisha suggests otherwise.

I doubt anyone would love the prophet if they believed she was a child. no one knows the true age. some say 18, some say 9

would love if their god told us clearly
Original post by Ascend
Does the Qur'an not talk of sensual houris/virgins in paradise? If someone (somehow) got aroused by that, it would be pretty hard telling him (or her) to avoid reading the Qur'an!

I suspect what OP is reading is a little more explicit than what's written in the Quran.
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Original post by CHANELDIAMONDS
I doubt anyone would love the prophet if they believed she was a child.

As much as I hope that was true, we've unfortunately seen many on here over the years unapologetically defend the 6/9 year-old marriage/consummation narrative.
yes if it's making you aroused, it's best to stay away from that website.
Original post by RaGe Beast
So I found this website a couple days ago through looking to see how haram masterbation and porn in Islam since I’ve been battling with this for a couple of years and to try to refrain from doing so but I’ve learned most Muslims do it and that you should just try to restrain as much as possible. Which made it nice to hear and I liked hearing about this stuff but, the thing is that while in the process of reading others tips and experiences some of the things talked about women and their experiences which like most guys (I hope not just me) would get aroused. I don’t know if this is haram that I’ve read some of these. I never acted on these urges so far but I would keep reading them. I would like to know if you guys think this is haram.
Ya stop
Original post by RaGe Beast
So I found this website a couple days ago through looking to see how haram masterbation and porn in Islam since I’ve been battling with this for a couple of years and to try to refrain from doing so but I’ve learned most Muslims do it and that you should just try to restrain as much as possible. Which made it nice to hear and I liked hearing about this stuff but, the thing is that while in the process of reading others tips and experiences some of the things talked about women and their experiences which like most guys (I hope not just me) would get aroused. I don’t know if this is haram that I’ve read some of these. I never acted on these urges so far but I would keep reading them. I would like to know if you guys think this is haram.
Original post by Ascend
As much as I hope that was true, we've unfortunately seen many on here over the years unapologetically defend the 6/9 year-old marriage/consummation narrative.


does it say in the quran that she was 6? i’m tired of this hadeeth ****. it keeps changing
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Original post by CHANELDIAMONDS
does it say in the quran that she was 6? i’m tired of this hadeeth ****. it keeps changing


No, it seems to be only in Sunni Hadiths. I've come across many Shia who dispute it also.
I've never read a single koran or hadith translation that specifically forbids either.
But both disgust me.
None of the decent guys I know who are followers of islam have time for either.
They are too busy looking after vulnerable people in need of help, raising money for charities, having a social life and participating in interfaith events.
A bit rude.
Original post by Ascend
No, it seems to be only in Sunni Hadiths. I've come across many Shia who dispute it also.


You’d think a god so powerful would make his holy book clear.
I don’t lust over her. I just thinks she’s sexy and cute. And may possibly accept her proposal but i don’t actually have butterflies (maybe if i met her) and i don’t think of having sex with her. Maybe just a kiss though. Anyway, i’m not even muslim so
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Original post by CHANELDIAMONDS
I don’t lust over her. I just thinks she’s sexy and cute. And may possibly accept her proposal but i don’t actually have butterflies (maybe if i met her) and i don’t think of having sex with her. Maybe just a kiss though. Anyway, i’m not even muslim so

:laugh: :yy:

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