how do i stop being insecure Watch

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i get reaaaaally insecure when my man compliments girls in front of me who look like me. he doesnt say it to them, he says it to me.

he's always saying x girl looks good or this girl is hot etc to me. dont get me wrong he compliments me A LOT too but i could do with this whole not checking out and admiring other girls around me because as much as i am confident and love women and try not to be bitter or insecure, it really does bring out ugly feelings in me which id rather not have. i dont want to talk to him about it because i know he's just going to think i'm being extra and insecure but i genuinely dont like it

how can i get over it?
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He shouldn't be doing that in the first place - it's disrespectful. By all means check out other women but he shouldn't be then relaying his thoughts to you. You'd be better off talking about it - and sooner rather than later. Those feelings of insecurity aren't just going to go away by themselves and the longer you put it off the worse you're going to feel.
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There's nothing wrong about the way you feel about the situation.
Your partner shouldn't be bringing these 'ugly feelings.'
It's his fault. Confront him.
(Original post by Anonymous)
i get reaaaaally insecure when my man compliments girls in front of me who look like me. he doesnt say it to them, he says it to me.

he's always saying x girl looks good or this girl is hot etc to me. dont get me wrong he compliments me A LOT too but i could do with this whole not checking out and admiring other girls around me because as much as i am confident and love women and try not to be bitter or insecure, it really does bring out ugly feelings in me which id rather not have. i dont want to talk to him about it because i know he's just going to think i'm being extra and insecure but i genuinely dont like it

how can i get over it?
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