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    Thought id explain why, me and my brother are different, he sleeps around even when he has a girlfriend and sleeps with stunning women often and unnattractive sometimes when hes lonely(very insecure)

    Hes 30 now and been that way since he was 16

    He did settle down for a while when he was 22 with a girl who was murdered 4 years ago and it destoryed him and he slept with anyone and even got to the point where if a gay man came up to him hed flirt back then come back to mine and cry.

    We always like the same sort of girls but he never admits to liking the plain and big girls and dates the stunners. But when at home talking about celebs we match the same.

    Anyway my brother now lives about 300 miles away and I have been dating a girl for a few months and it wasnt until I saw a few pics of her that it freaked me out as she was so much like my brothers murdered ex.

    Only difference was really my girlfriend was very curvy and his was thin(she had to take steroids as her body wouldnt put on weight) same hair colour and style, same facial structure and similar smiles, very similar personalitys.

    Its just a massive coincidence as I have always liked this sort of girl but it freaks me out that the similaritys are so great.

    What shall I do!?!

    Im serious here btw.

    Explain to your GF the past, and how it reminds you of her, but explain gently it isn't her fault, but you need some support from her. (I take it you do need support from her?)
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