I can’t seem to feel pleasure Watch

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Ok so I’m 16 and me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost a year now and obviously we’ve had sex. My first time was painful and I felt nothing pleasurable whatsoever but I thought it was just normal which it is but the more I had sex the more worried and sad I got because no matter what my boyfriend does I don’t feel anything good, kissing him and all that gets me turned on but if he fingers me, gives oral or we have sex I still feel nothing. I’ve tried all the different kinds of masterbation (excluding vibrators,I want to try a vibrator but I don’t have access to one at this point in time y’know?), so so many hours😑 nothing has worked yet. I’ve seen that a very small amount of people feel the same but should I go to the doctor or something? Is there something wrong?
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You should consider going to visit a doctor, it may be nothing but it’s always best to check!
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unfortunately some women just can't. might be worth seeing a doctor to see if they can do anything to help
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honestly, your boyfriend probably hasn't hit the right spot yet. most girls only feel pleasure from clitoral stimulation, so if this isn't happening, you probably aren't going to feel pleasure. If you've already tried clitoral stuff and you don't feel pleasure, maybe see a gyneochologist. Most likely there's nothing wrong, but maybe do see a doctor.
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Ok so I’m 16 and me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost a year now and obviously we’ve had sex. My first time was painful and I felt nothing pleasurable whatsoever but I thought it was just normal which it is but the more I had sex the more worried and sad I got because no matter what my boyfriend does I don’t feel anything good, kissing him and all that gets me turned on but if he fingers me, gives oral or we have sex I still feel nothing. I’ve tried all the different kinds of masterbation (excluding vibrators,I want to try a vibrator but I don’t have access to one at this point in time y’know?), so so many hours😑 nothing has worked yet. I’ve seen that a very small amount of people feel the same but should I go to the doctor or something? Is there something wrong?
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