a question for guys Watch
Just be you, and find someone who is attracted to you, as you are. It's the method most likely to be conducive to a long and stable relationship.
I mean, there's exceptions. I would not tell a fat girl to 'just be you, don't try and change', because in some cases, change is beneficial. Obesity is not only repulsive, but it's very damaging to one's health in the long term. I wouldn't tell a mean, cruel girl to 'just be you, don't try and change', because again, sometimes change is a good thing when there are traits such as this, which are almost universally frowned upon by society for good reasons. Your personality type, how shy you are, is not one of these traits, though, and in this case it is definitely I think good advice to just be you. Furthermore, I don't think it's something you ever really can change.