Worthless, ugly, dumb, and... yeah Watch

Anonymous #1
#1
Report Thread starter 2 weeks ago
#1
I have been feeling really worthless lately. Like I need someone to validate me.
I guess a lot of it is because I do not go out with friends that much (I do not have that many), I never get told that I am pretty and I think that I am probably ugly, I am 17 and still have not had a real relationship and for some reason I want one just so that I will know that somebody other than my immediate family loves me, I guess you could say that I just need attention but I really don't want to be "that girl" if you know what I mean. I really do not know what to do... I want help but I don't want to be an attention whore... God I hate this. Somebody help me.
0
reply
flumefan1
Badges: 11
Rep:
?
#2
Report 2 weeks ago
#2
you are not worthless love!
I'm 18 M, never had a relationship either, you aren't alone. Asking for help =/= attention-seeking. If you want help, ask for it. It might be hard to ask at first but you can do it I believe in you - you can do anything!
always here
3
reply
lolsimeon
Badges: 8
Rep:
?
#3
Report 2 weeks ago
#3
Stop believing your thoughts, you are not your thoughts, continually doubt them and not listen to them.

This is all going on in your head and love is looking for the best for someone, being a servant to some else.
0
reply
Avrinmoch
Badges: 3
Rep:
?
#4
Report 2 weeks ago
#4
I'm exactly the same but i'm a bit older. It really feels useless being an ugly girl. No guys will ever like us.
0
reply
Anonymous #2
#5
Report 2 weeks ago
#5
(Original post by Anonymous)
I have been feeling really worthless lately. Like I need someone to validate me.
I guess a lot of it is because I do not go out with friends that much (I do not have that many), I never get told that I am pretty and I think that I am probably ugly, I am 17 and still have not had a real relationship and for some reason I want one just so that I will know that somebody other than my immediate family loves me, I guess you could say that I just need attention but I really don't want to be "that girl" if you know what I mean. I really do not know what to do... I want help but I don't want to be an attention whore... God I hate this. Somebody help me.
Girl i feel you, I am 18 dont have many friends ( i think thats just because i like to keep my circle small cause it is hard for me trust people i dont know why) never had a boyfriend so yh i get it there are many things i felt this way ( too many to count) bruh i sound old but Its true and about wanting attention i get it cause no one has ever looking my way in that way ( not that i realise anyway) but dont worry and no you are most certainly not ugly have you seen me? the fact that you had the bravery to post this shows me that you are a strong beautiful and courageous girl so stop listening to those negative thoughts ok hope you have a great day
0
reply
rjckk
Badges: 8
Rep:
?
#6
Report 2 weeks ago
#6
(Original post by Avrinmoch)
I'm exactly the same but i'm a bit older. It really feels useless being an ugly girl. No guys will ever like us.
I don't think girl's look is important.
How old are you? Are you studying in university?
0
reply
rjckk
Badges: 8
Rep:
?
#7
Report 2 weeks ago
#7
Do you study well?
Are you studying in university?
(Original post by Anonymous)
Girl i feel you, I am 18 dont have many friends ( i think thats just because i like to keep my circle small cause it is hard for me trust people i dont know why) never had a boyfriend so yh i get it there are many things i felt this way ( too many to count) bruh i sound old but Its true and about wanting attention i get it cause no one has ever looking my way in that way ( not that i realise anyway) but dont worry and no you are most certainly not ugly have you seen me? the fact that you had the bravery to post this shows me that you are a strong beautiful and courageous girl so stop listening to those negative thoughts ok hope you have a great day
0
reply
Anonymous #2
#8
Report 2 weeks ago
#8
(Original post by rjckk)
Do you study well?
Are you studying in university?
Yes i guess
not in uni yet waiting for my a levels results
0
reply
s786!
Badges: 7
Rep:
?
#9
Report 1 week ago
#9
(Original post by Anonymous)
I have been feeling really worthless lately. Like I need someone to validate me.
I guess a lot of it is because I do not go out with friends that much (I do not have that many), I never get told that I am pretty and I think that I am probably ugly, I am 17 and still have not had a real relationship and for some reason I want one just so that I will know that somebody other than my immediate family loves me, I guess you could say that I just need attention but I really don't want to be "that girl" if you know what I mean. I really do not know what to do... I want help but I don't want to be an attention whore... God I hate this. Somebody help me.
Can you PM me?
0
reply
X

Quick Reply

Attached files
Write a reply...
Reply
new posts
Latest
My Feed

See more of what you like on
The Student Room

You can personalise what you see on TSR. Tell us a little about yourself to get started.

Personalise

Are you tempted to change your firm university choice on A-level results day?

Yes, I'll try and go to a uni higher up the league tables (153)
17.83%
Yes, there is a uni that I prefer and I'll fit in better (75)
8.74%
No I am happy with my course choice (506)
58.97%
I'm using Clearing when I have my exam results (124)
14.45%

Watched Threads

View All