asian relationship

I disagree, in fact they are putting me through this heartbreak, If I wasn't from such a reserved and strict culture I would be able to openly be with him, talk to him etc with no fear. But no, I have to wait for years until I become independent, and by then if he stops speaking to me or something happens i'll just loose him.

people with experience, how did you commit to a relationship knowing you've got restrictions? say you don't go out the house (as a girl)? I just want to brush it off until I can become independent in a few years and be able to meet him outside and stuff. I just sometimes stress though thinking about the future like I don't want to mention to him I can't go out and stuff right now because he is allowed, we're on totally different levels but have such a great understanding. I also feel right now im a bit young to make it into a relationship, I'm just scared if he pops the question as I don't want to say no.

don't get what difference that makes, I believe I've matured emotionally and am at the stage where I'd like things to start to fall into place instead of spending nights stressing about losing him, I'm not interested in anyone except him.

Exactly Asian parents are smart

I'm not asian, my parents were very restrictive and didn't allow me out on my own.

Didn't like rich people, people who disagreed with their politics, people with other viewpoints or family in the police and military.

I used to climb out of windows to sneak out, hide my driving licence/car & car keys and never told them when I had a boyfriend.
Left their home before a level results and will never set foot there again.
My best friend was born in india, her family are liberal and welcome all her dates- regardless of career, race or religion.
It is not so much one specific culture as the controlling nature of some parents.
The only answer is to study hard, save up as much cash as you can and wait until you have a uni place far away from them to finally escape to.
Good luck!

I'm not asian, my parents were very restrictive and didn't allow me out on my own.

Didn't like rich people, people who disagreed with their politics, people with other viewpoints or family in the police and military.

I used to climb out of windows to sneak out, hide my driving licence/car & car keys and never told them when I had a boyfriend.
Left their home before a level results and will never set foot there again.
My best friend was born in india, her family are liberal and welcome all her dates- regardless of career, race or religion.
It is not so much one specific culture as the controlling nature of some parents.
The only answer is to study hard, save up as much cash as you can and wait until you have a uni place far away from them to finally escape to.
Good luck!

How did you leave your parents home are you rich or someehing?. Plus most Indian parents in general are strict. Your friend and her parents are different they do not speak for the whole of India or do they represent being Indian

No, I work three jobs and study.
I left with a small amount of cash, as many bags as I could carry and moved in with the boyfriend (now ex).
My mother swiped my life savings, told me I would be paying rent to live in my bedroom for three years of uni, then gave me an inheritance ultimatum: obey or else.

So you dont ever speak to your parents damn

Not if I can help it.
I last talked to them a couple of years ago at my uncle's funeral.
My parents do try sending their friends to ask for my address and leave constant phone messages on my online messaging service.