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My boyfriend and I have had a rocky relationship to say the least, but we’ve always found each other again. During one of our breaks, he got with this girl. She was a rebound, it really didn’t last long. He broke her heart but he didn’t have true feelings for her. It was temporary. I’ve heard she’s married now. Him and her have always spoken on and off (idk why he does this) but I think he feels bad. Anyway do you think it affects him in any way knowing that she is now married? I know he loves me but she was a part of his life, for one Summer.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
My boyfriend and I have had a rocky relationship to say the least, but we’ve always found each other again. During one of our breaks, he got with this girl. She was a rebound, it really didn’t last long. He broke her heart but he didn’t have true feelings for her. It was temporary. I’ve heard she’s married now. Him and her have always spoken on and off (idk why he does this) but I think he feels bad. Anyway do you think it affects him in any way knowing that she is now married? I know he loves me but she was a part of his life, for one Summer.
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I don't think it should bother him that she is married and has moved on with her life unless he still had feelings for her. Why do you think he feels bad?
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If she was just a rebound that he didn't have feelings for all that much, I can't imagine he's all too bothered.

Though obviously I don't know the guy so I can't really say for sure.
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I don't think it should bother him that she is married and has moved on with her life unless he still had feelings for her. Why do you think he feels bad?
I think he feels bad because she got into the ‘relationship’ or whatever you wanna call it with the mindset of it being a long term thing, whereas he did not
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If she was just a rebound that he didn't have feelings for all that much, I can't imagine he's all too bothered.

Though obviously I don't know the guy so I can't really say for sure.
Yeah I understand. Sometimes I don’t think he does but other times I remember all the times she tried getting back into his life and he just let her. That aspect of his life (with her) is one which he doesn’t speak of clearly. Like he told me everything but I met up with her (randomly happened) and there’s contradictions...

Do I be happy that I’m with him and he loves me or do I stay stuck in the past, wondering what was
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