Guys, do you think you're nice?

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Reply 20

Themysticalegg

I hope I am, I don't like making an opinion about myself :tongue:

Reply 21

Kraggor

I try to treat everyone with the same respect and attitude but I'll let others decide on whether I am nice to them or not :smile:

Y’all wish

There's a whole subreddit dedicated to people who claim to be "nice guys".

Reply 24

math42

Original post by Anonymous

Why do you say that? What is it that you that isn't "nice"?

I mean, I'm not one to hand out compliments often or suck up to people, and I can be, if in a playful sense, somewhat combative in conversation. Mostly though I'm just a bit of a non-entity, not saying much, or saying little of interest, in your average social scenario, so in that sense I have something in common with the "nice guys".

Reply 25

username2861570

In terms of friendly towards people, yes. In terms of letting people and women walk all over me, no.

Reply 26

londonmyst

Original post by JoshDarnIt

In terms of friendly towards people, yes. In terms of letting people and women walk all over me, no.

How about letting toy animals walk all over you? :biggrin:

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Reply 27

username2861570

Original post by londonmyst

How about letting toy animals walk all over you? :biggrin:

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I'll allow it just this once only because they're cute :K:

Reply 28

It's****ingWOODY

I'm generally polite and friendly to strangers, and I'm nice to those I like, I enjoy feeling like I'm helping people (so long as I'm not making huge sacrifices in my own life to do so, mind). However, I have a hard time being nice to people I don't like, and it doesn't take much for me to take a disliking to someone. I can also be incredibly selfish and self centred, and at times quite manipulative.

I think on the whole I'm pretty nice, if you earn it I'll treat you with the utmost respect and I never intentionally do anyone wrong, but I can also be a complete asshoIe.

Reply 29

Themysticalegg

Omg these are the toys you talk about :colondollar:

Original post by londonmyst

How about letting toy animals walk all over you? :biggrin:

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Reply 30

GiveMeCoffee4

I will fully admit that I can be the biggest ******* on this planet if angered. Sort of like a cat, lovely when left alone, but prod for too long and you'll lose your hand

Reply 31

londonmyst

Original post by Themysticalegg

Omg these are the toys you talk about :colondollar:

Three of the most sweet and friendly toy animals.
Some of the collection view students, lecturers and the parents of students as DINNER.
Led by Mr Wolf's wife.

Reply 32

awkwardshortguy

I'm a virgin so logically I must be.

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Reply 33

asif007

Any guy who is capable of having friends can be called nice. You need to have something likeable about yourself in order to hold down friendships, let alone a relationship. I don’t like when people use “nice guys” to describe people who have ulterior motives and are only being friendly to people expecting something in return. That’s not being nice, that’s being a douche and I hate when people use the terms interchangeably. This is why girls put “nice guys” and friend zone in the same category.

I’d consider myself a likeable person (I prefer that word to “nice” which now has negative connotations when it comes to relationships). I’ve got a strong circle of reliable friends and I like to think I’m approachable when meeting new people. However, I can be a **** to people I take a disliking to, or people who have done wrong by me in the past. People who know me well know that I am a supportive person whereas people who don’t may think I’m self-centred and that’s fine. In spite of this, I’ve rarely been able to get anywhere past friendship with girls, maybe cos I’m open and honest and not “mysterious” enough for their liking. Some girls may think I’m a **** because I dared to ask them out and they said no, but my friends who are girls may have kinder things to say about me. I think I fall somewhere between the two extremes.