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I liked this guy for a while and on a night out we finally kissed. I ruined it though and got a little too drunk and told him that we can never be together and gave him lots of reasons why!

I'm kicking myself I can't believe it and I'm not sure why I said all that, I think I'm just insecure and scared of getting hurt or being played.

I've no idea if he ever liked me, my insecurities tell me that he didn't and probably wanted to 'get some'. It's been awkward between us since and sometimes he seems annoyed at me which is making it hard for me to approach.

How do I communicate and tell him or show him that I'm sorry? I'm scared of being the one who is rejected now

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(Original post by Anonymous)
I liked this guy for a while and on a night out we finally kissed. I ruined it though and got a little too drunk and told him that we can never be together and gave him lots of reasons why!

I'm kicking myself I can't believe it and I'm not sure why I said all that, I think I'm just insecure and scared of getting hurt or being played.

I've no idea if he ever liked me, my insecurities tell me that he didn't and probably wanted to 'get some'. It's been awkward between us since and sometimes he seems annoyed at me which is making it hard for me to approach.

How do I communicate and tell him or show him that I'm sorry? I'm scared of being the one who is rejected now

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Bite the bullet and tell him, don't wait and hope he sees that you are sorry
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You could play it off like "Apparently so-and-so overheard me telling you __________... did I actually say that? OMG I'm so embarrassed, I didn't mean it, don't know why I said it" yada yada.
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Learn to handle your alchie.
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with guys you cant be subtle so just cut straight to the point and tell him how you actually feel
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don’t you blurt out the truth when you’re drunk
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Just tell him, not us, how you feel. What do you have to lose?
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