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So my boyfriend looks at random girls On Instagram some are like suicide girls and some are random girls it hurt me cause I just had a baby and it made me feel insecure and we literally almost broke up about it and he apologized and said he would stop but then I found out he is still doing it I guess I understand since we can’t really have sex but I still please him in other ways I just don’t understand why he would look at models instead of porn it makes me feel bad about myself what can I do so it doesn’t bother me so much? He just won’t stop lying to me after I tell him to be honest with me
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You need to sit down and have a serious conversation with him about your relationship. He either doesn't realise the pain it causes you or doesn't care. Guys will always need sex so you should discuss some way of getting around his lack of it, and even though him looking at porn is disrespectful I wouldn't be too alarmed because most guys in relationships do that. Also I feel like you should call him out for looking at suicidal girls' Instas to get off because that is just sick and twisted, he needs help. If you've had a baby together then you need to tell him that he needs to be a better partner so that the child can have happy parents and a good upbringing. Don't be too pushy otherwise he'll dislike you for it but you definitely need to stand your ground and tell him to be more committed to the relationship.
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So my boyfriend looks at random girls On Instagram some are like suicide girls and some are random girls it hurt me cause I just had a baby and it made me feel insecure and we literally almost broke up about it and he apologized and said he would stop but then I found out he is still doing it I guess I understand since we can’t really have sex but I still please him in other ways I just don’t understand why he would look at models instead of porn it makes me feel bad about myself what can I do so it doesn’t bother me so much? He just won’t stop lying to me after I tell him to be honest with me
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