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so i was clubbing n i met this angel of a guy, he's rly lovely n respects women and all that and is rly rly nice. And hey no drugs! Idk if i 'fancy' him but he is attractive.. ?
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he's a distribution driver n I want to go cambridge n I'm not sure if i have the time, Ik I need to stick my head down more this yr- Ive been locked up for 2months w exams )':
the other thing- and this sounds awful but he's not smart smart so I think we wouldn't have many intellectual discussions or anythingwhich i love...
would this all be a waste of time... I'm not rly on my phonefor more than 30mins/day anyhow so im only on it now exams are out but i still have tons to do in summer - work, reading, personal statements, revision etc..


am i being dramatic- yes/ but (do u think) i should call it off now or give it sometime
I was in a relationship w this guy for a couple of months at the beginning of the yr and he drained me bc he was problematic - this angel doesn't appear like that tho?
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He sounds like he doesn't deserve a timewaster tbh
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Maybe go on a few dates with him over summer & give him a chance, you can always call it off if you'r not really feeling it anymore!
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(Original post by Anonymous)
so i was clubbing n i met this angel of a guy, he's rly lovely n respects women and all that and is rly rly nice. And hey no drugs! Idk if i 'fancy' him but he is attractive.. ?
the issue is
he's a distribution driver n I want to go cambridge n I'm not sure if i have the time, Ik I need to stick my head down more this yr- Ive been locked up for 2months w exams )':
the other thing- and this sounds awful but he's not smart smart so I think we wouldn't have many intellectual discussions or anythingwhich i love...

would this all be a waste of time... I'm not rly on my phonefor more than 30mins/day anyhow so im only on it now exams are out but i still have tons to do in summer - work, reading, personal statements, revision etc..


am i being dramatic- yes/ but (do u think) i should call it off now or give it sometime
I was in a relationship w this guy for a couple of months at the beginning of the yr and he drained me bc he was problematic - this angel doesn't appear like that tho?
Hey, my name is Mia 👋

Let me get this straight:
1. The "issue" is that he's a driver
2. "He's not smart / wouldn't have any intellectual discussions"

You are being very rude and disrespectful here whether you intended to or not.
1. Just because he's a driver, that does not in any way mean he's not intelligent
2. You're judging all of him based on ONE meeting with him at a CLUB.

You don't really deserve him if all you think about, and claim you "love", is his lack of 'intelligence'.

Yes, you are being dramatic. If you really do like him you'd accept him irrelevant of his class / occupation in comparison to you 🤨

Good luck 🙂
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He sounds like he doesn't deserve a timewaster tbh
I 💯 agree 🙌
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Someone who structures a post using text-speak thinks someone else isn't smart? :laugh:

It's not the norm to launch into intellectual discussions when out clubbing, so try making a proper judgement on the guy if you can stop being a snob and give him a chance.
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I thought this too haha
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Someone who structures a post using text-speak thinks someone else isn't smart? :laugh:

It's not the norm to launch into intellectual discussions when out clubbing, so try making a proper judgement on the guy if you can stop being a snob and give him a chance.
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I thought this too haha
U mn 'i tht ths 2 haha'

It was sooo tempting to reply in the same vein, but just reading the OP was making my eyes bleed...:wtf:
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(Original post by Anonymous)
so i was clubbing n i met this angel of a guy, he's rly lovely n respects women and all that and is rly rly nice. And hey no drugs! Idk if i 'fancy' him but he is attractive.. ?
the issue is
he's a distribution driver n I want to go cambridge n I'm not sure if i have the time, Ik I need to stick my head down more this yr- Ive been locked up for 2months w exams )':
the other thing- and this sounds awful but he's not smart smart so I think we wouldn't have many intellectual discussions or anythingwhich i love...
would this all be a waste of time... I'm not rly on my phonefor more than 30mins/day anyhow so im only on it now exams are out but i still have tons to do in summer - work, reading, personal statements, revision etc..


am i being dramatic- yes/ but (do u think) i should call it off now or give it sometime
I was in a relationship w this guy for a couple of months at the beginning of the yr and he drained me bc he was problematic - this angel doesn't appear like that tho?
I’d leave it, you’ll have to break up with him anyway once ur at uni, so what’s the point?
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If you like him just go for it, you’ll make it work. If it doesnt end up working at least you gave it a shot
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If you have no time dont bother

Also your judging him off of one meeting, How do you know he dosent like intellectual discussion?
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And such is life; one spends time with themselves only to find that they had needed that other, and realisation may come only at the time we lay beside the dust. So I will say that his loveliness is great and that your dedication (not to him..) but to yourself also is another beauty in life. I wonder what path you shall choose, even after the advice you sought, and we brewed from you.

Well, no matter the choice, just keep in mind that you have many roads ahead, and this shall come again!, Keep going strong and move forward!!!!
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this isn't a class thing... I'm not posh either, we're about the same
its more idk if we have any common interests and he doesnt seem particularly ambitious to do anything tbh- i dated a guy before n he was a lump

i should have stipulated i have gone and met him afterwards lmao
it was 'nice' but sparks didnt fly or anything, but he so lovely!! !
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I didnt make myself clear before but i have met him since once- i dont think we got many similar interests tbh all hes into is cars idk

n fight me text-speak idc boi
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hello!! thansk for the advice! v sweet

Im making him lasagne n hes coming round next week - im givin it a go i guess lmao
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Meet him for a date then you will know! Problem solved?
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